中國人關于名字有多少種講究?
名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)在(zai)(zai)(zai)社會(hui)(hui)中(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)個(ge)(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)標記(ji)。交際場合上(shang)，十幾年未謀面的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)老(lao)同學、老(lao)朋友(you)，只(zhi)要(yao)(yao)記(ji)起(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)對(dui)方的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)，馬(ma)(ma)上(shang)會(hui)(hui)親(qin)熱如(ru)初。初次見(jian)面的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，交換(huan)過(guo)(guo)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)，區分出(chu)(chu)張(zhang)三李四王(wang)五馬(ma)(ma)六之(zhi)后(hou)，也(ye)可(ke)(ke)以(yi)慢(man)慢(man)地親(qin)熱起(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)來。 過(guo)(guo)去，有(you)(you)“文(wen)如(ru)其(qi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)”、“字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)如(ru)其(qi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)”之(zhi)說。現在(zai)(zai)(zai)，國外(wai)心(xin)理學家卻提(ti)出(chu)(chu)，名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)對(dui)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)生(sheng)具有(you)(you)潛移默化的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)影響，“名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)如(ru)其(qi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)”。高雅(ya)、高深的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)妙如(ru)詩美(mei)如(ru)畫醇如(ru)酒，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)僅(jin)令人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)回(hui)味，還會(hui)(hui)自覺不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)自覺地陶冶名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)主人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)靈(ling)，改善其(qi)行為(wei)，起(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)到(dao)潛移默化的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)作用。 如(ru)今，推(tui)行優(you)生(sheng)優(you)育，講(jiang)究人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)口(kou)(kou)素質。給(gei)孩(hai)子(zi)(zi)起(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)—這一(yi)(yi)神圣(sheng)而光榮的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)任務(wu)，自然馬(ma)(ma)虎不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)得。未出(chu)(chu)世或剛出(chu)(chu)世的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)嬰(ying)兒，無(wu)法過(guo)(guo)問自己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)起(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)，也(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)懂得發愁，做父母的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)卻要(yao)(yao)趕在(zai)(zai)(zai)孩(hai)子(zi)(zi)上(shang)戶口(kou)(kou)前(qian)(qian)，敲定孩(hai)子(zi)(zi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)；要(yao)(yao)好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)聽好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)叫好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)記(ji)好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)寫(xie)，要(yao)(yao)與(yu)(yu)眾不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)同，要(yao)(yao)讓孩(hai)子(zi)(zi)長大以(yi)后(hou)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)會(hui)(hui)怪(guai)罪……等(deng)(deng)等(deng)(deng)等(deng)(deng)等(deng)(deng)，實(shi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)件容易的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)事情。 起(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)有(you)(you)講(jiang)究起(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)首忌俗規(gui)舊套(tao)。在(zai)(zai)(zai)現實(shi)生(sheng)活中(zhong)很多人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)起(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)仍舊圍著(zhu)陰陽五行、生(sheng)辰八字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)打(da)轉轉，手(shou)持易理、八卦、相(xiang)法之(zhi)書，占兇吉，論八字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi). 所(suo)以(yi)趙(zhao)金寶、張(zhang)有(you)(you)德(de)、陳淑貞(zhen)、李來福等(deng)(deng)等(deng)(deng)老(lao)套(tao)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)便開始與(yu)(yu)他們(men)相(xiang)伴為(wei)伍。 除此之(zhi)外(wai), 簡單的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi), 生(sheng)僻的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi), 祖先和(he)先賢名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi), 繞口(kou)(kou)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi), 不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)雅(ya)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi), 過(guo)(guo)于(yu)(yu)時髦的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi), 過(guo)(guo)于(yu)(yu)夸(kua)贊的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)都應該注意(yi)避免(mian). 起(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)藝術盡(jin)管名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)本身只(zhi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)符號，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)們(men)在(zai)(zai)(zai)起(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)時，還是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)煞費苦心(xin)地反復推(tui)敲，希望得到(dao)一(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)與(yu)(yu)眾不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)同的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)。其(qi)結果(guo)，有(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)心(xin)滿意(yi)足，他有(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)得不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)終生(sheng)遺憾(han)。那么，能否找(zhao)到(dao)一(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)或幾種(zhong)(zhong)途徑(jing)，使人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)們(men)在(zai)(zai)(zai)起(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)時，能避免(mian)漫(man)無(wu)目標地亂撞呢？我們(men)認為(wei)，起(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)有(you)(you)規(gui)律可(ke)(ke)循的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。許(xu)多人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)之(zhi)所(suo)以(yi)得不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)到(dao)滿意(yi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)起(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)，主要(yao)(yao)原因就是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)違背了談起(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)規(gui)律。 起(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)關鍵的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)在(zai)(zai)(zai)于(yu)(yu)選(xuan)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)。從(cong)目前(qian)(qian)起(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)情況(kuang)看，一(yi)(yi)般選(xuan)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)只(zhi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)簡單地查(cha)查(cha)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)典,詞(ci)典,選(xuan)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)標準(zhun)也(ye)僅(jin)僅(jin)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)選(xuan)所(suo)謂(wei)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)"好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)"。單單靠翻(fan)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)典能翻(fan)出(chu)(chu)一(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)嗎? 答案是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)也(ye)許(xu)會(hui)(hui). 你可(ke)(ke)能會(hui)(hui)欣喜一(yi)(yi)番，自認為(wei)自己(ji)發現了一(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)千載難逢的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)。可(ke)(ke)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)跟別人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)一(yi)(yi)說，回(hui)答往(wang)(wang)往(wang)(wang)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)：“這個(ge)(ge)(ge)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)? 噢，樓下小王(wang)家的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)孩(hai)子(zi)(zi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)也(ye)叫這個(ge)(ge)(ge)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)嘛(ma)!” 這是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)為(wei)什(shen)么呢? 由于(yu)(yu)受共同的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)文(wen)化氛圍的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)熏(xun)陶，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)們(men)對(dui)所(suo)謂(wei)"好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)"的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)認識大致相(xiang)同，起(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)結果(guo)往(wang)(wang)往(wang)(wang)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)英雄所(suo)見(jian)略同。漢字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)數量(liang)有(you)(you)限，"好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)"數量(liang)可(ke)(ke)以(yi)說少得可(ke)(ke)憐，要(yao)(yao)想獲得良好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)審美(mei)效果(guo)，就要(yao)(yao)突破傳統的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)選(xuan)字(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)方式，另(ling)辟蹊徑(jing)，拓寬思路，在(zai)(zai)(zai)新的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)天地里(li)尋找(zhao)新的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)境界。...
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