本命年好嗎?
說本(ben)(ben)命(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)不(bu)好，意(yi)思是(shi)“犯太歲”。但是(shi)除(chu)了(le)“龍(long)”，“馬(ma)”，“雞”，“豬”四屬(shu)相[自刑]不(bu)宜在本(ben)(ben)命(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)結(jie)(jie)婚(hun)外，其余屬(shu)相是(shi)可以在本(ben)(ben)命(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)結(jie)(jie)婚(hun)的(de)。主要(yao)是(shi)看雙方的(de)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)命(ming)是(shi)否相合就行了(le)。 “本(ben)(ben)命(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)”就是(shi)十二年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)—遇(yu)的(de)農歷屬(shu)相所(suo)在的(de)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)份(fen)，俗稱(cheng)屬(shu)相年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)。比如猴(hou)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)出(chu)生的(de)人(ren)(ren)，2004年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)就是(shi)他們的(de)本(ben)(ben)命(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)。在傳統習(xi)俗中，本(ben)(ben)命(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)常(chang)常(chang)被認為是(shi)一個不(bu)吉利的(de)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)份(fen)。“本(ben)(ben)命(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)犯太歲，太歲當頭坐，無喜必(bi)有(you)禍”的(de)民謠是(shi)關(guan)于(yu)本(ben)(ben)命(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)不(bu)甚吉利的(de)最好寫照。故民間(jian)(jian)通常(chang)把“本(ben)(ben)命(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)”也(ye)叫做(zuo)“檻兒(er)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)”，即度過本(ben)(ben)命(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)如同邁(mai)進一道檻兒(er)一樣。每(mei)到本(ben)(ben)命(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)時，漢族北方各地，不(bu)論大人(ren)(ren)小孩都要(yao)買(mai)紅(hong)(hong)腰帶系上，俗稱(cheng)“扎紅(hong)(hong)”，小孩還要(yao)穿紅(hong)(hong)背(bei)心、紅(hong)(hong)褲(ku)衩，認為這樣才(cai)能趨吉避兇、消(xiao)災(zai)免禍。這種習(xi)俗到今天仍在各地流行，每(mei)逢春節，市場(chang)上到處有(you)出(chu)售“吉祥帶”“吉祥結(jie)(jie)”的(de)紅(hong)(hong)黃綢帶，本(ben)(ben)命(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)的(de)人(ren)(ren)們將(jiang)之(zhi)系在腰間(jian)(jian)、手(shou)腕上，這樣便可消(xiao)解災(zai)禍、化兇為吉。...
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