《易經.漸卦》
漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)易經(jing)(jing)六(liu)(liu)(liu)十(shi)四卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)中(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)第(di)五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)十(shi)三(san)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)，闡(chan)明(ming)(ming)事(shi)(shi)物在(zai)(zai)(zai)發展(zhan)過(guo)(guo)(guo)程(cheng)中(zhong)“遁(dun)序漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)道(dao)理。漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)巽(xun)(xun)(xun)下(xia)(xia)艮(gen)(gen)，巽(xun)(xun)(xun)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)木(mu)(mu)，艮(gen)(gen)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)山(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)，山(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)木(mu)(mu)，木(mu)(mu)隨(sui)山(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)勢而(er)(er)(er)長，漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)長之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)義(yi)(yi)。卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)中(zhong)三(san)陰(yin)(yin)三(san)陽(yang)，陰(yin)(yin)陽(yang)均衡，可(ke)只有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)“六(liu)(liu)(liu)二(er)”和(he)(he)“九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)”各得(de)(de)(de)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，相互應(ying)(ying)援；又(you)巽(xun)(xun)(xun)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)長女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)，艮(gen)(gen)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)少(shao)(shao)男(nan)(nan)，有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)男(nan)(nan)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)婚(hun)媾之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)，故(gu)(gu)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)辭(ci)(ci)“ 女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)歸(gui)(gui)(gui)吉(ji)(ji)，利貞(zhen)(zhen) 。”古(gu)代(dai)(dai)(dai)認為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)生(sheng)(sheng)來(lai)(lai)就是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)別人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)家(jia)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，所(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)出(chu)(chu)(chu)嫁叫“歸(gui)(gui)(gui)”，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)與下(xia)(xia)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)“歸(gui)(gui)(gui)妹”是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)意思。古(gu)代(dai)(dai)(dai)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi) 出(chu)(chu)(chu)嫁有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)個(ge)(ge)煩(fan)瑣的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)過(guo)(guo)(guo)程(cheng) ，要(yao)(yao)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)媒妁(shuo)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)言(yan)(yan)，父母之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)命，占(zhan)卜合(he)(he)婚(hun)，六(liu)(liu)(liu)聘之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)禮(li)方(fang)(fang)(fang)可(ke)出(chu)(chu)(chu)嫁；而(er)(er)(er) 出(chu)(chu)(chu)嫁的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)禮(li)儀(yi)又(you)很復(fu)雜(za)，需(xu)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)步(bu)(bu)(bu)步(bu)(bu)(bu)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)序地(di)(di)(di)進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)行(xing)(xing)(xing)，故(gu)(gu)借(jie)用(yong)喻之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)“漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)”。 53.1 漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)：女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)歸(gui)(gui)(gui)吉(ji)(ji)。利貞(zhen)(zhen)。 白(bai)(bai)(bai)話 漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)：女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)大(da)(da)(da)(da)當(dang)(dang)嫁，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)好事(shi)(shi)。這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)吉(ji)(ji)祥(xiang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)貞(zhen)(zhen)卜。 解(jie)(jie)(jie)讀 漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)，卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)名。本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)異卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)相疊(die)(艮(gen)(gen)下(xia)(xia)巽(xun)(xun)(xun)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang))。上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)巽(xun)(xun)(xun)，巽(xun)(xun)(xun)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)木(mu)(mu)；下(xia)(xia)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)艮(gen)(gen)，艮(gen)(gen)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)山(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)。木(mu)(mu)植(zhi)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)山(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)斷生(sheng)(sheng)長。喻人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)立身(shen)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)道(dao)義(yi)(yi)，培養其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)德(de)(de)(de)行(xing)(xing)(xing)，進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)而(er)(er)(er)影(ying)響他人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，移(yi)風易俗(su)。所(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)名曰漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)。漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)，就是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)意思。歸(gui)(gui)(gui)，古(gu)時(shi)侯以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)出(chu)(chu)(chu)嫁為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)歸(gui)(gui)(gui)。 53.2 《彖(tuan)》曰 漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。“女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)歸(gui)(gui)(gui)吉(ji)(ji)”也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)，進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)得(de)(de)(de)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，往(wang)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)功也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)正(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)，可(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)正(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)邦也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)剛(gang)(gang)(gang)得(de)(de)(de)中(zhong)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。止(zhi)而(er)(er)(er)巽(xun)(xun)(xun)，動而(er)(er)(er)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)窮(qiong)(qiong)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。 白(bai)(bai)(bai)話 逐漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)而(er)(er)(er)進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)，女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)出(chu)(chu)(chu)嫁吉(ji)(ji)祥(xiang)。進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)而(er)(er)(er)取(qu)得(de)(de)(de)正(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，前(qian)往(wang)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)功。按正(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)道(dao)前(qian)進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)，可(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)正(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)邦國。漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)剛(gang)(gang)(gang)夭居(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)中(zhong)。能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)停(ting)下(xia)(xia)隨(sui)順(shun)地(di)(di)(di)等待(dai)，行(xing)(xing)(xing)動起(qi)(qi)來(lai)(lai)就沒有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)困窮(qiong)(qiong)。 解(jie)(jie)(jie)讀 漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)，朱熹(xi)說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)：“之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)字疑衍。”朱說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)。此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)句(ju)當(dang)(dang)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)“漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)，進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)”。 “進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)得(de)(de)(de)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)”兩句(ju)，本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)初(chu)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)陰(yin)(yin)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)，居(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)陽(yang)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，升進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)而(er)(er)(er)至于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)第(di)二(er)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)、第(di)四爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)，皆居(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)陰(yin)(yin)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)像(xiang)相得(de)(de)(de)，喻女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)出(chu)(chu)(chu)嫁夫家(jia)，得(de)(de)(de)主婦(fu)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)。 其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)剛(gang)(gang)(gang)得(de)(de)(de)中(zhong)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)，此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)、爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)據(ju)。九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)陽(yang)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)，為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)剛(gang)(gang)(gang)，居(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)中(zhong)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，第(di)五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)又(you)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)陽(yang)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)性(xing)(xing)相合(he)(he)而(er)(er)(er)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)得(de)(de)(de)中(zhong)。喻君(jun)王(wang)(wang)(wang)正(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，治理其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)邦國。 止(zhi)而(er)(er)(er)巽(xun)(xun)(xun)，本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)下(xia)(xia)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)艮(gen)(gen)，艮(gen)(gen)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)山(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)，其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)靜(jing)止(zhi)；上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)巽(xun)(xun)(xun)，巽(xun)(xun)(xun)義(yi)(yi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)遜(xun)(xun)(xun)。沉(chen)著謙遜(xun)(xun)(xun)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)品德(de)(de)(de)。 《彖(tuan)辭(ci)(ci)》說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)：漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)，就是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)意思。本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)初(chu)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)陰(yin)(yin)，進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)而(er)(er)(er)升為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)第(di)二(er)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)、第(di)四爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)，皆以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)陰(yin)(yin)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)而(er)(er)(er)居(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)陰(yin)(yin)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)顯示(shi)，女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)出(chu)(chu)(chu)嫁，可(ke)得(de)(de)(de)主婦(fu)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)持家(jia)庭之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)政。推而(er)(er)(er)廣之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)，君(jun)王(wang)(wang)(wang)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)正(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，治其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)國。漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)下(xia)(xia)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)艮(gen)(gen)，艮(gen)(gen)義(yi)(yi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)止(zhi)；上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)巽(xun)(xun)(xun)，巽(xun)(xun)(xun)義(yi)(yi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)遜(xun)(xun)(xun)。像(xiang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)沉(chen)著而(er)(er)(er)謙遜(xun)(xun)(xun)，無(wu)往(wang)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)利，永不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)困窮(qiong)(qiong)。 53.3 《象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)》曰 山(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)木(mu)(mu)，漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)。君(jun)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)居(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)賢(xian)德(de)(de)(de)善(shan)俗(su)。 白(bai)(bai)(bai)話 山(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)長有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)樹木(mu)(mu)就是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)，君(jun)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)從(cong)(cong)中(zhong)得(de)(de)(de)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)啟示(shi)，要(yao)(yao)居(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)於(wu)安(an)德(de)(de)(de)，改(gai)善(shan)風俗(su)。 解(jie)(jie)(jie)讀 善(shan)俗(su)，《釋(shi)文(wen)》：“善(shan)俗(su)，王(wang)(wang)(wang)肅本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)作善(shan)風俗(su)。”善(shan)，改(gai)善(shan)。 《象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)辭(ci)(ci)》說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)：本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)下(xia)(xia)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)艮(gen)(gen)，艮(gen)(gen)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)山(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)；上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)巽(xun)(xun)(xun)，巽(xun)(xun)(xun)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)木(mu)(mu)，木(mu)(mu)植(zhi)山(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)斷生(sheng)(sheng)長，是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)。君(jun)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)觀(guan)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)，取(qu)法于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)山(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)育(yu)(yu)林，從(cong)(cong)而(er)(er)(er)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)賢(xian)德(de)(de)(de)自(zi)(zi)(zi)居(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)，擔負(fu)起(qi)(qi)改(gai)善(shan)風俗(su)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)社(she)會(hui)(hui)責(ze)任。 53.4 初(chu)六(liu)(liu)(liu)鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)干(gan)(gan)。小(xiao)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)厲，有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)言(yan)(yan)，無(wu)咎(jiu)。《象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)》曰：小(xiao)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)厲，義(yi)(yi)無(wu)咎(jiu)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。 白(bai)(bai)(bai)話 初(chu)六(liu)(liu)(liu)：鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)雁(yan)(yan)(yan)走(zou)(zou)(zou)進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)了(le)山(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)澗。筮遇此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)，警(jing)惕(ti)小(xiao)孩頑皮(pi)，遭遇危(wei)(wei)險(xian)，應(ying)(ying)該加(jia)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)譴責(ze)，則(ze)沒有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)災(zai)難(nan)(nan)。《象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)辭(ci)(ci)》說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)：小(xiao)孩頑皮(pi)遭遇危(wei)(wei)險(xian)，由(you)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)家(jia)長呵責(ze)制止(zhi)，理應(ying)(ying)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)會(hui)(hui)失(shi)事(shi)(shi)故(gu)(gu)。 解(jie)(jie)(jie)讀 鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)，王(wang)(wang)(wang)弼說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)：“鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)，水(shui)(shui)鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。”漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)，進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)，走(zou)(zou)(zou)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)。干(gan)(gan)，《釋(shi)文(wen)》“荀、王(wang)(wang)(wang)肅云：山(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)間(jian)澗水(shui)(shui)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。”即山(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)澗。鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)干(gan)(gan)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)占(zhan)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)辭(ci)(ci)。本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)六(liu)(liu)(liu)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)均以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)雁(yan)(yan)(yan)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)占(zhan)，所(suo)(suo)(suo)占(zhan)多(duo)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)日(ri)常(chang)生(sheng)(sheng)活中(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)事(shi)(shi)情(qing)，《象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)辭(ci)(ci)》則(ze)附會(hui)(hui)解(jie)(jie)(jie)釋(shi)。 小(xiao)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)，指(zhi)小(xiao)孩。育(yu)(yu)，沙(sha)少(shao)(shao)海先生(sheng)(sheng)說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)：“當(dang)(dang)借(jie)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)*。篆文(wen)言(yan)(yan)與*，形(xing)近而(er)(er)(er)訛(e)。《說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)文(wen)》：“*，語(yu)相訶(he)拒也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。訓(xun)訶(he)責(ze)、譴責(ze)。” 爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)辭(ci)(ci)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)（大(da)(da)(da)(da)雁(yan)(yan)(yan)）為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)喻來(lai)(lai)說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)明(ming)(ming)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)過(guo)(guo)(guo)程(cheng)。鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種水(shui)(shui)鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)，性(xing)(xing)情(qing)溫和(he)(he)，南北群行(xing)(xing)(xing)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)序，寒暑往(wang)來(lai)(lai)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)時(shi)，用(yong)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)來(lai)(lai)喻女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)及(ji)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)婚(hun)嫁之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)事(shi)(shi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)再恰當(dang)(dang)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)過(guo)(guo)(guo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)了(le)。 “初(chu)六(liu)(liu)(liu)”以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)陰(yin)(yin)居(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)最下(xia)(xia)，上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)無(wu)所(suo)(suo)(suo)應(ying)(ying)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)遠(yuan)飛，只能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)“鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)干(gan)(gan)”。巽(xun)(xun)(xun)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)少(shao)(shao)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)，尚不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)具(ju)備出(chu)(chu)(chu)嫁的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)條件；艮(gen)(gen)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)止(zhi)，只能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)等待(dai)。大(da)(da)(da)(da)雁(yan)(yan)(yan)慢悠(you)悠(you)地(di)(di)(di)走(zou)(zou)(zou)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)了(le)岸，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)時(shi)卻有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)個(ge)(ge)“小(xiao)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)”貿然(ran)撞進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)來(lai)(lai)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)危(wei)(wei)險(xian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)什么說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)“厲”呢(ni)？因(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)個(ge)(ge)小(xiao)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)懂“漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)規(gui)矩，沒有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)履行(xing)(xing)(xing)求婚(hun)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)程(cheng)序，應(ying)(ying)該先有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)媒妁(shuo)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)言(yan)(yan)，故(gu)(gu)“有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)言(yan)(yan)，吉(ji)(ji)”。 53.5 六(liu)(liu)(liu)二(er)鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)磐(pan)，飲食衎(kan)(kan)(kan)(kan)衎(kan)(kan)(kan)(kan)。吉(ji)(ji)。《象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)》曰：飲食衎(kan)(kan)(kan)(kan)衎(kan)(kan)(kan)(kan)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)素(su)飽也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。 白(bai)(bai)(bai)話 六(liu)(liu)(liu)二(er)：鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)雁(yan)(yan)(yan)走(zou)(zou)(zou)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)水(shui)(shui)邊(bian)(bian)高(gao)地(di)(di)(di)，飽飲饜(yan)飫，自(zi)(zi)(zi)得(de)(de)(de)喜(xi)樂。筮遇此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)，吉(ji)(ji)祥(xiang)。《象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)辭(ci)(ci)》說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)：飽飲饜(yan)飫，自(zi)(zi)(zi)得(de)(de)(de)喜(xi)樂，喻指(zhi)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，自(zi)(zi)(zi)食其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)力，從(cong)(cong)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)白(bai)(bai)(bai)吃白(bai)(bai)(bai)喝(he)。 解(jie)(jie)(jie)讀 磐(pan)，本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)作般(ban)。王(wang)(wang)(wang)引之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)：“《史記?孝武(wu)紀?封禪書(shu)》、《漢書(shu)?郊祀志(zhi)(zhi)》并引武(wu)帝詔曰：‘鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)般(ban)’。孟康注曰：‘股(gu)，水(shui)(shui)涯堆(dui)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。’其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)義(yi)(yi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)長。”水(shui)(shui)涯堆(dui)，猶言(yan)(yan)水(shui)(shui)邊(bian)(bian)高(gao)地(di)(di)(di)。衎(kan)(kan)(kan)(kan)衎(kan)(kan)(kan)(kan)(kàn)，《禮(li)記?檀弓》上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)。“飲食衎(kan)(kan)(kan)(kan)爾(er)。”鄭玄注：“衎(kan)(kan)(kan)(kan)爾(er)，自(zi)(zi)(zi)得(de)(de)(de)貌(mao)。” “六(liu)(liu)(liu)二(er)”居(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)中(zhong)得(de)(de)(de)正(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)，上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)應(ying)(ying)“九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)”之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)尊，如(ru)“鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)磐(pan)”，立足穩健，“九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)”欲下(xia)(xia)而(er)(er)(er)應(ying)(ying)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)，“女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)歸(gui)(gui)(gui)”之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)。“飲食衎(kan)(kan)(kan)(kan)衎(kan)(kan)(kan)(kan)”《帛書(shu)》作“酒食衍衍”，說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)出(chu)(chu)(chu)嫁時(shi)歡樂的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)婚(hun)宴場(chang)面。 53.6 九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)三(san)鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)陸(lu)。夫征(zheng)(zheng)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)復(fu)，婦(fu)孕(yun)(yun)(yun)(yun)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)育(yu)(yu)，兇(xiong)(xiong)。利御(yu)寇(kou)。《象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)》曰：夫征(zheng)(zheng)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)復(fu)，離(li)群丑也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)，婦(fu)孕(yun)(yun)(yun)(yun)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)育(yu)(yu)，失(shi)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)道(dao)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。利御(yu)寇(kou)，順(shun)相保(bao)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。 白(bai)(bai)(bai)話 九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)三(san)：鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)雁(yan)(yan)(yan)走(zou)(zou)(zou)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)旱地(di)(di)(di)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)。筮遇此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)，丈(zhang)夫出(chu)(chu)(chu)征(zheng)(zheng)可(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)再回(hui)返(fan)，婦(fu)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)懷孕(yun)(yun)(yun)(yun)可(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)流產(chan)(chan)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)兇(xiong)(xiong)險(xian)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)兆(zhao)。但有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)利于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)抵(di)御(yu)敵寇(kou)。《象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)辭(ci)(ci)》說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)：丈(zhang)夫出(chu)(chu)(chu)征(zheng)(zheng)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)再回(hui)返(fan)，說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)明(ming)(ming)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)掉隊遇險(xian)。婦(fu)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)懷孕(yun)(yun)(yun)(yun)而(er)(er)(er)流產(chan)(chan)，說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)明(ming)(ming)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)失(shi)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)保(bao)胎(tai)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)道(dao)。利于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)抵(di)御(yu)敵寇(kou)，說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)明(ming)(ming)國人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)夠(gou)同(tong)心同(tong)德(de)(de)(de)，保(bao)家(jia)衛(wei)國。 解(jie)(jie)(jie)讀 丑，《爾(er)雅?釋(shi)詁》：“丑，眾也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。” “九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)三(san)”以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)剛(gang)(gang)(gang)居(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)陽(yang)，上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)無(wu)所(suo)(suo)(suo)應(ying)(ying)，以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)陽(yang)剛(gang)(gang)(gang)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)質有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)躁進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)意。鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)水(shui)(shui)鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)，卻“漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)陸(lu)”，兇(xiong)(xiong)多(duo)吉(ji)(ji)少(shao)(shao)，兇(xiong)(xiong)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)什么程(cheng)度呢(ni)？“夫征(zheng)(zheng)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)復(fu)，婦(fu)孕(yun)(yun)(yun)(yun)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)育(yu)(yu)”。“夫征(zheng)(zheng)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)復(fu)”是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)男(nan)(nan)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)出(chu)(chu)(chu)征(zheng)(zheng)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)歸(gui)(gui)(gui)還(huan)，“君(jun)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)役，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)知其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)期(qi)，曷(he)至哉”《詩經(jing)(jing)·君(jun)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)役》。“婦(fu)孕(yun)(yun)(yun)(yun)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)育(yu)(yu)”是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)男(nan)(nan)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)出(chu)(chu)(chu)征(zheng)(zheng)前(qian)懷了(le)孕(yun)(yun)(yun)(yun)，但因(yin)難(nan)(nan)產(chan)(chan)而(er)(er)(er)生(sheng)(sheng)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)下(xia)(xia)孩子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)。“不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)復(fu)”、“不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)育(yu)(yu)”都有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)“漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)”之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)義(yi)(yi)。男(nan)(nan)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)所(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)歸(gui)(gui)(gui)，是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)因(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)隨(sui)軍打(da)仗去了(le)，故(gu)(gu)“利御(yu)寇(kou)”。 53.7 六(liu)(liu)(liu)四鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)木(mu)(mu)，或得(de)(de)(de)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)桷，無(wu)咎(jiu)。《象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)》曰：或得(de)(de)(de)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)桷，順(shun)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)巽(xun)(xun)(xun)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。 白(bai)(bai)(bai)話 六(liu)(liu)(liu)四：鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)雁(yan)(yan)(yan)飛到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)樹木(mu)(mu)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)，有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)停(ting)息(xi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)河(he)邊(bian)(bian)堆(dui)放(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)桷木(mu)(mu)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)。筮遇此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)，沒有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)災(zai)難(nan)(nan)。《象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)辭(ci)(ci)》說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)：有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)雁(yan)(yan)(yan)停(ting)息(xi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)河(he)邊(bian)(bian)堆(dui)放(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)桷木(mu)(mu)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)所(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)沒有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)災(zai)難(nan)(nan)，由(you)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)六(liu)(liu)(liu)四陰(yin)(yin)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)居(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)陽(yang)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)下(xia)(xia)，像(xiang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)馴服而(er)(er)(er)又(you)謙遜(xun)(xun)(xun)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)德(de)(de)(de)。 解(jie)(jie)(jie)讀 桷(jué)，《說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)文(wen)》：“榱(cui)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。椽方(fang)(fang)(fang)曰桷。”圓(yuan)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)叫椽，方(fang)(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)叫桷，房屋(wu)頂(ding)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)承瓦的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)木(mu)(mu)條。 順(shun)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)巽(xun)(xun)(xun)，此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)六(liu)(liu)(liu)四、九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)、爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)據(ju)。順(shun)，順(shun)從(cong)(cong)。巽(xun)(xun)(xun)，謙遜(xun)(xun)(xun)。 “六(liu)(liu)(liu)四”以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)陰(yin)(yin)柔處(chu)“九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)三(san)”、“九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)”兩個(ge)(ge)陽(yang)剛(gang)(gang)(gang)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)中(zhong)，下(xia)(xia)無(wu)所(suo)(suo)(suo)應(ying)(ying)，處(chu)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)很困難(nan)(nan)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)境界(jie)。“鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)木(mu)(mu)”，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)大(da)(da)(da)(da)雁(yan)(yan)(yan)所(suo)(suo)(suo)居(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)地(di)(di)(di)。大(da)(da)(da)(da)雁(yan)(yan)(yan)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)蹼是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)相連(lian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，抓不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)住(zhu)木(mu)(mu)頭，“或得(de)(de)(de)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)桷”——如(ru)若(ruo)站(zhan)在(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)方(fang)(fang)(fang)木(mu)(mu)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)或許尚可(ke)站(zhan)得(de)(de)(de)穩點，而(er)(er)(er)獲(huo)“無(wu)咎(jiu)”。“桷”是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)屋(wu)頂(ding)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)椽子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)，代(dai)(dai)(dai)指(zhi)房屋(wu)。九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)三(san)“夫征(zheng)(zheng)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)復(fu)，婦(fu)孕(yun)(yun)(yun)(yun)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)育(yu)(yu)”，總得(de)(de)(de)找一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)安(an)身(shen)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)地(di)(di)(di)方(fang)(fang)(fang)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)等夫，二(er)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)生(sheng)(sheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)個(ge)(ge)地(di)(di)(di)方(fang)(fang)(fang)大(da)(da)(da)(da)概(gai)就是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)娘家(jia)吧。 53.8 九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)陵。婦(fu)三(san)歲不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)孕(yun)(yun)(yun)(yun)，終(zhong)(zhong)莫之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)勝(sheng)(sheng)，吉(ji)(ji)。《象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)》曰：終(zhong)(zhong)莫之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)勝(sheng)(sheng)，吉(ji)(ji)，得(de)(de)(de)所(suo)(suo)(suo)愿也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。 白(bai)(bai)(bai)話 九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)：鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)雁(yan)(yan)(yan)走(zou)(zou)(zou)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)山(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)陵上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)。筮遇此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)，妻子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)多(duo)年不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)懷孕(yun)(yun)(yun)(yun)，但始(shi)終(zhong)(zhong)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)會(hui)(hui)被人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)取(qu)代(dai)(dai)(dai)，吉(ji)(ji)祥(xiang)。《象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)辭(ci)(ci)》說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)：始(shi)終(zhong)(zhong)沒有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)被人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)取(qu)代(dai)(dai)(dai)，吉(ji)(ji)祥(xiang)，妻子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)實現了(le)與其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)丈(zhang)夫和(he)(he)諧白(bai)(bai)(bai)頭的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愿望。 解(jie)(jie)(jie)讀 勝(sheng)(sheng)，勝(sheng)(sheng)過(guo)(guo)(guo)，取(qu)代(dai)(dai)(dai)。莫之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)勝(sheng)(sheng)，是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)沒有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)取(qu)代(dai)(dai)(dai)她。 “九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)”以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)陽(yang)剛(gang)(gang)(gang)居(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)君(jun)位(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，高(gao)高(gao)在(zai)(zai)(zai)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)，猶“鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)陵”。本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)與“六(liu)(liu)(liu)二(er)” 正(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)應(ying)(ying)，但中(zhong)間(jian)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)“九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)三(san)”、“六(liu)(liu)(liu)四”相隔(ge)，而(er)(er)(er)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)得(de)(de)(de)相見。出(chu)(chu)(chu)征(zheng)(zheng)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)在(zai)(zai)(zai)外(wai)，陰(yin)(yin)陽(yang)得(de)(de)(de)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)調和(he)(he)，故(gu)(gu)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)“婦(fu)三(san)歲不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)孕(yun)(yun)(yun)(yun)”之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)。但“九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)”以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)剛(gang)(gang)(gang)居(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)(ju)尊，“六(liu)(liu)(liu)二(er)”柔順(shun)中(zhong)正(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)，愛情(qing)忠貞(zhen)(zhen)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)逾，誰(shui)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)奪(duo)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)志(zhi)(zhi)，故(gu)(gu)“終(zhong)(zhong)莫勝(sheng)(sheng)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)，無(wu)咎(jiu)。” 53.9 上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)阿(a)，其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)羽(yu)(yu)可(ke)用(yong)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)儀(yi)，吉(ji)(ji)祥(xiang)。《象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)》曰：其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)羽(yu)(yu)可(ke)用(yong)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)儀(yi)，巖，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)可(ke)亂也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。 白(bai)(bai)(bai)話 上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)：鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)雁(yan)(yan)(yan)走(zou)(zou)(zou)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)山(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)(shan)頭上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)，它(ta)(ta)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)羽(yu)(yu)毛(mao)可(ke)用(yong)來(lai)(lai)編織(zhi)舞具(ju)。這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)吉(ji)(ji)祥(xiang)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)兆(zhao)。《象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)辭(ci)(ci)》說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)：鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)雁(yan)(yan)(yan)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)羽(yu)(yu)毛(mao)可(ke)用(yong)來(lai)(lai)編織(zhi)舞具(ju)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)吉(ji)(ji)祥(xiang)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)兆(zhao)，編織(zhi)舞具(ju)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)羽(yu)(yu)毛(mao)應(ying)(ying)該純(chun)而(er)(er)(er)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)雜(za)，像(xiang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)心志(zhi)(zhi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)亂。 解(jie)(jie)(jie)讀 阿(a)，原(yuan)訛(e)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)陸(lu)。恒作陸(lu)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)僅與九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)三(san)爻(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)辭(ci)(ci)重復(fu)，且不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)協韻(yun)。江(jiang)永、王(wang)(wang)(wang)引之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)、俞樾均說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)阿(a)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)訛(e)。阿(a)、儀(yi)古(gu)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)韻(yun)。今據(ju)改(gai)。《說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)文(wen)》：“阿(a)，大(da)(da)(da)(da)陵也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)。” 儀(yi)，古(gu)時(shi)侯人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)文(wen)舞的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)道(dao)具(ju)，用(yong)鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)羽(yu)(yu)編織(zhi)。 “上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)九(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)”處(chu)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)終(zhong)(zhong)、巽(xun)(xun)(xun)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)極，若(ruo)“鴻(hong)(hong)(hong)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)于(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)(yu)陸(lu)”。這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)里(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)“陸(lu)”當(dang)(dang)“云路”解(jie)(jie)(jie)，即高(gao)飛入云，有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)超逸遠(yuan)走(zou)(zou)(zou)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)象(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)。“其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)羽(yu)(yu)可(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)儀(yi)”是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)對這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種行(xing)(xing)(xing)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)褒獎，它(ta)(ta)像(xiang)羽(yu)(yu)毛(mao)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)樣美麗，可(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)作為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)們的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)儀(yi)表。 漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)卦(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)(gua)，闡(chan)釋(shi)由(you)停(ting)頓的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)狀態，邁(mai)步(bu)(bu)(bu)向(xiang)前(qian)時(shi)，應(ying)(ying)采取(qu)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)原(yuan)則(ze)。前(qian)進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)才(cai)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)建功，前(qian)進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)當(dang)(dang)然(ran)要(yao)(yao)剛(gang)(gang)(gang)毅，但也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)要(yao)(yao)把(ba)握中(zhong)庸原(yuan)則(ze)。不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)可(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)勉強，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)可(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)冒進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)，應(ying)(ying)當(dang)(dang)穩當(dang)(dang)，依據(ju)狀況，把(ba)握時(shi)機，腳踏實地(di)(di)(di)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)步(bu)(bu)(bu)步(bu)(bu)(bu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)循序向(xiang)前(qian)邁(mai)進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)，動靜(jing)順(shun)乎自(zi)(zi)(zi)然(ran)，才(cai)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)安(an)全，行(xing)(xing)(xing)動不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)會(hui)(hui)窮(qiong)(qiong)困。如(ru)果剛(gang)(gang)(gang)強過(guo)(guo)(guo)度，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)停(ting)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)冒進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)，就有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)脫(tuo)離(li)群眾的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)危(wei)(wei)險(xian)。當(dang)(dang)然(ran)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)漸(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)(jian)進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)中(zhong)，會(hui)(hui)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)阻礙，但邪不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)勝(sheng)(sheng)正(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)，必須以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)正(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)當(dang)(dang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)方(fang)(fang)(fang)式突破。超脫(tuo)於(wu)世俗(su)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)外(wai)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)名利所(suo)(suo)(suo)累，則(ze)可(ke)進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)退由(you)心，可(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)進(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)(jin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)極致(zhi)。...
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