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蓬(peng)萊民間婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)姻(yin)(yin)習(xi)俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su) 定(ding)(ding)(ding)(ding)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)：舊(jiu)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)姻(yin)(yin)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)父(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)母(mu)(mu)包辦(ban)，媒(mei)(mei)(mei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)提(ti)(ti)(ti)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)，父(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)母(mu)(mu)依照(zhao)門(men)(men)當(dang)(dang)(dang)戶(hu)(hu)對(dui)(dui)、屬相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)不(bu)(bu)(bu)克(ke)、歲數(shu)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)仿(fang)等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)條(tiao)(tiao)件(jian)，合(he)(he)乎心意(yi)即(ji)許親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)。許親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)，媒(mei)(mei)(mei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)持男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)交(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)，即(ji)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)定(ding)(ding)(ding)(ding)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)。《中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)華人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)民婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)姻(yin)(yin)法》頒布(bu)(bu)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)，包辦(ban)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)姻(yin)(yin)廢除(chu)，多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)媒(mei)(mei)(mei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)提(ti)(ti)(ti)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)，男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)擇(ze)日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)會(hui)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)（稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“打(da)對(dui)(dui)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)”），雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)意(yi)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)，由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)媒(mei)(mei)(mei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)將(jiang)(jiang)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)交(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)，即(ji)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)定(ding)(ding)(ding)(ding)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)（亦稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“定(ding)(ding)(ding)(ding)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)”）。自(zi)由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)戀愛(ai)者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)，男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)擇(ze)日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)設(she)宴請(qing)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)到(dao)(dao)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)，并(bing)贈送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)品予(yu)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，即(ji)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)正(zheng)式(shi)(shi)定(ding)(ding)(ding)(ding)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)。定(ding)(ding)(ding)(ding)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)之(zhi)日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)起(qi)(qi)，男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)均正(zheng)式(shi)(shi)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)對(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)父(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)母(mu)(mu)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)爸爸、媽(ma)(ma)媽(ma)(ma)。禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)：為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)給(gei)(gei)(gei)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)定(ding)(ding)(ding)(ding)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)品。禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)少(shao)(shao)(shao)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般(ban)(ban)(ban)根(gen)據家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭(ting)生(sheng)(sheng)活條(tiao)(tiao)件(jian)及當(dang)(dang)(dang)地(di)(di)(di)(di)習(xi)俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)而(er)定(ding)(ding)(ding)(ding)，富家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)量多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)質(zhi)(zhi)高(gao)，貧(pin)(pin)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)量少(shao)(shao)(shao)質(zhi)(zhi)次(ci)。建國(guo)前(qian)(qian)，大(da)(da)(da)(da)部分是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)套(tao)衣料、兩(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)襪(wa)子(zi)(zi)(zi)、一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)包袱皮、首飾、胭(yan)脂等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)。建國(guo)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)，數(shu)量逐漸增多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)，質(zhi)(zhi)量逐漸提(ti)(ti)(ti)高(gao)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般(ban)(ban)(ban)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)兩(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)套(tao)衣料、兩(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)襪(wa)子(zi)(zi)(zi)、一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)皮鞋、外(wai)(wai)加101元(yuan)錢(qian)(qian)，意(yi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)“百里(li)(li)挑(tiao)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)”。80年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)代(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)有(you)(you)(you)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)1001元(yuan)、10001元(yuan)者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)，意(yi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)“千里(li)(li)挑(tiao)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)”、“萬里(li)(li)挑(tiao)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)”。結(jie)(jie)(jie)(jie)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)：舊(jiu)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)結(jie)(jie)(jie)(jie)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)，俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“將(jiang)(jiang)（娶(qu)(qu)）媳(xi)(xi)婦”。結(jie)(jie)(jie)(jie)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)前(qian)(qian)擇(ze)定(ding)(ding)(ding)(ding)喜(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)。喜(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)前(qian)(qian)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)天(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)，男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)派族(zu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)到(dao)(dao)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)品及化(hua)妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)品，名曰(yue)(yue)“催裝(zhuang)”。喜(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)晨或(huo)前(qian)(qian)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)二(er)日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)，男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)差人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)到(dao)(dao)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)抬取嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)，俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“抬喜(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)盒”。喜(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)，男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)朋前(qian)(qian)來(lai)(lai)祝賀，俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“喝喜(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)”，并(bing)贈錢(qian)(qian)，稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“上(shang)(shang)(shang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)情(qing)錢(qian)(qian)”（人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)情(qing)錢(qian)(qian)給(gei)(gei)(gei)戶(hu)(hu)主(zhu)(zhu)）、“賞錢(qian)(qian)”（賞錢(qian)(qian)給(gei)(gei)(gei)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)）。家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)及迎(ying)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)必(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)經之(zhi)路沿途(tu)(tu)張貼(tie)(tie)紅(hong)(hong)“喜(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)”字(zi)(zi)(zi)，從(cong)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)直貼(tie)(tie)至村(cun)(cun)頭(tou)(tou)。門(men)(men)上(shang)(shang)(shang)貼(tie)(tie)大(da)(da)(da)(da)紅(hong)(hong)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)“喜(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)”，掛紅(hong)(hong)。早(zao)飯(fan)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)本(ben)(ben)族(zu)兩(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)（俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“氈(zhan)迎(ying)客(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)”或(huo)“架氈(zhan)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)”）陪(pei)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)，乘(cheng)(cheng)花轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)，吹鼓手(shou)(shou)奏樂前(qian)(qian)導(dao)，前(qian)(qian)往(wang)(wang)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)迎(ying)娶(qu)(qu)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)。新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)梳妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)候，花轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)至門(men)(men)，女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)迎(ying)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)入(ru)(ru)，奠于(yu)祖(zu)堂，拜(bai)見(jian)(jian)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)長(chang)(chang)，宴少(shao)(shao)(shao)頃，先(xian)出乘(cheng)(cheng)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)以(yi)(yi)紅(hong)(hong)綢蒙(meng)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)，由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)其(qi)兄(xiong)(xiong)長(chang)(chang)攙(chan)扶(fu)進(jin)另(ling)(ling)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)，由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)輩男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)各(ge)二(er)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)（俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)客(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)”）陪(pei)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)，隨同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)到(dao)(dao)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)。途(tu)(tu)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)如(ru)遇廟宇、井、怪(guai)石等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)，“氈(zhan)迎(ying)客(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)”則抖開紅(hong)(hong)氈(zhan)遮擋之(zhi)，謂之(zhi)“避邪”。新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)上(shang)(shang)(shang)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)之(zhi)前(qian)(qian)，女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)差一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)兒(er)(er)(er)(er)童，持紅(hong)(hong)布(bu)(bu)裹(guo)著(zhu)(zhu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)盤(pan)，盤(pan)上(shang)(shang)(shang)整(zheng)(zheng)齊地(di)(di)(di)(di)擺著(zhu)(zhu)核桃大(da)(da)(da)(da)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)生(sheng)(sheng)水(shui)(shui)餃，先(xian)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)步(bu)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)至新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)（俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)小(xiao)(xiao)飯(fan)”），煮熟(shu)，等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)候花轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)到(dao)(dao)來(lai)(lai)。花轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)至男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)村(cun)(cun)頭(tou)(tou)落轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)，由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)本(ben)(ben)族(zu)長(chang)(chang)輩在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)頂扣一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)篩子(zi)(zi)(zi)，然(ran)(ran)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)起(qi)(qi)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)，繞村(cun)(cun)街一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)周(zhou)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)到(dao)(dao)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)門(men)(men)前(qian)(qian)落轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)，兩(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)名女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)迎(ying)客(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)（俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“攙(chan)媳(xi)(xi)婦的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)”）至新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)前(qian)(qian)，給(gei)(gei)(gei)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)喂飯(fan)，然(ran)(ran)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)攙(chan)扶(fu)出轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)。轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)前(qian)(qian)放(fang)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)馬鞍(an)，馬鞍(an)上(shang)(shang)(shang)放(fang)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)紅(hong)(hong)紙包裹(guo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)粘糕(gao)少(shao)(shao)(shao)許，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)踩馬鞍(an)下(xia)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)“攙(chan)媳(xi)(xi)婦的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)”攙(chan)扶(fu)下(xia)（南(nan)部山區(qu)(qu)(qu)外(wai)(wai)加由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)扯著(zhu)(zhu)紅(hong)(hong)綢帶拉(la)著(zhu)(zhu)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)）踩著(zhu)(zhu)“氈(zhan)迎(ying)客(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)”鋪(pu)下(xia)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)紅(hong)(hong)氈(zhan)（南(nan)部山區(qu)(qu)(qu)鋪(pu)高(gao)粱秸(jie)皮編的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)“折(zhe)子(zi)(zi)(zi)”）至院(yuan)(yuan)內(nei)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)、新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)天(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)地(di)(di)(di)(di)牌位叩拜(bai)，名曰(yue)(yue)“拜(bai)天(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)地(di)(di)(di)(di)”；再(zai)(zai)至堂屋(wu)，拜(bai)祖(zu)先(xian)，拜(bai)父(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)母(mu)(mu)；然(ran)(ran)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)入(ru)(ru)洞(dong)(dong)房(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)、新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)吃(chi)“小(xiao)(xiao)飯(fan)水(shui)(shui)餃”，喝合(he)(he)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)開始“坐(zuo)床”。新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)仍(reng)(reng)由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)“氈(zhan)迎(ying)客(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)”陪(pei)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)，返回(hui)(hui)(hui)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)（稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“回(hui)(hui)(hui)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)”），新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)只宴請(qing)姑(gu)(gu)舅親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)戚(qi)(qi)及本(ben)(ben)族(zu)長(chang)(chang)者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)認，宴后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)返回(hui)(hui)(hui)自(zi)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)。新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)，中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)午(wu)大(da)(da)(da)(da)宴賓客(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)。新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)席設(she)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)堂屋(wu)正(zheng)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)坐(zuo)于(yu)上(shang)(shang)(shang)座特(te)備的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)羅(luo)圈椅(yi)上(shang)(shang)(shang)，由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)性長(chang)(chang)輩、媒(mei)(mei)(mei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)、女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)迎(ying)客(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)、女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)客(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)陪(pei)。晚上(shang)(shang)(shang)，村(cun)(cun)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)好(hao)湊熱鬧(nao)者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)紛紛前(qian)(qian)往(wang)(wang)“鬧(nao)洞(dong)(dong)房(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)”。“鬧(nao)洞(dong)(dong)房(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)”者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)輕(qing)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)居(ju)(ju)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)，亦有(you)(you)(you)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)長(chang)(chang)者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)，俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)語謂“三日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)之(zhi)內(nei)無(wu)(wu)大(da)(da)(da)(da)小(xiao)(xiao)”。翌日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)或(huo)間日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)差人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)將(jiang)(jiang)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)接回(hui)(hui)(hui)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)，名曰(yue)(yue)“搬(ban)(ban)九(jiu)”，上(shang)(shang)(shang)午(wu)即(ji)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)回(hui)(hui)(hui)，同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)父(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)輩兄(xiong)(xiong)弟(di)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)到(dao)(dao)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)，名曰(yue)(yue)“會(hui)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)”，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)盛宴款待(dai)(dai)。南(nan)部山區(qu)(qu)(qu)“搬(ban)(ban)九(jiu)”系新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)、新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)去(qu)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)，女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)午(wu)設(she)宴款待(dai)(dai)，下(xia)午(wu)返回(hui)(hui)(hui)。建國(guo)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)，結(jie)(jie)(jie)(jie)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)坐(zuo)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)、請(qing)吹鼓手(shou)(shou)、拜(bai)天(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)地(di)(di)(di)(di)等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)習(xi)俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)漸廢。50年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)代(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)，迎(ying)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)“轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)車(che)(che)(che)”（牲(sheng)畜拉(la)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)大(da)(da)(da)(da)車(che)(che)(che)，上(shang)(shang)(shang)裝(zhuang)棚）；60年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)代(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)自(zi)行(xing)(xing)(xing)車(che)(che)(che)；70年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)代(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)拖拉(la)機；80年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)代(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)開始用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)包車(che)(che)(che)、小(xiao)(xiao)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)車(che)(che)(che)。亦有(you)(you)(you)旅行(xing)(xing)(xing)結(jie)(jie)(jie)(jie)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)和(he)(he)舉行(xing)(xing)(xing)集(ji)體婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)。嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)：因生(sheng)(sheng)活水(shui)(shui)平(ping)差異(yi)，嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)數(shu)量和(he)(he)質(zhi)(zhi)量差別較大(da)(da)(da)(da)，富者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)量多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)質(zhi)(zhi)高(gao)，貧(pin)(pin)者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)量少(shao)(shao)(shao)質(zhi)(zhi)次(ci)。舊(jiu)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般(ban)(ban)(ban)陪(pei)嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)品為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)柜、箱、匣幾(ji)(ji)、桌(zhuo)、椅(yi)、鐘表(biao)(biao)、鏡(jing)子(zi)(zi)(zi)、被(bei)(bei)、褥(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)、枕頭(tou)(tou)等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)。建國(guo)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)，隨著(zhu)(zhu)社會(hui)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)發(fa)(fa)展和(he)(he)生(sheng)(sheng)活水(shui)(shui)平(ping)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)提(ti)(ti)(ti)高(gao)，嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)檔次(ci)越(yue)來(lai)(lai)越(yue)高(gao)。70年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)代(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)主(zhu)(zhu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)有(you)(you)(you)立柜、五斗(dou)櫥、寫字(zi)(zi)(zi)臺、自(zi)行(xing)(xing)(xing)車(che)(che)(che)、縫紉機、梳妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)臺、折(zhe)疊椅(yi)等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)，被(bei)(bei)褥(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)料多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)綢緞(duan)。80年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)代(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)期，嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)收錄(lu)(lu)機、電視(shi)機、電風(feng)(feng)(feng)扇、電冰(bing)箱等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)高(gao)檔品已(yi)(yi)屢見(jian)(jian)不(bu)(bu)(bu)鮮。謝(xie)媒(mei)(mei)(mei)：完婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)，婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)贈豬頭(tou)(tou)、酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)品予(yu)媒(mei)(mei)(mei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，以(yi)(yi)示酬謝(xie)。 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蓬(peng)萊地(di)(di)(di)(di)區(qu)(qu)(qu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)姻(yin)(yin)風(feng)(feng)(feng)俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)·與(yu)山東省其(qi)他地(di)(di)(di)(di)區(qu)(qu)(qu)大(da)(da)(da)(da)體相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)。男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)子(zi)(zi)(zi)結(jie)(jie)(jie)(jie)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“將(jiang)(jiang)媳(xi)(xi)婦”，女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)子(zi)(zi)(zi)結(jie)(jie)(jie)(jie)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“出門(men)(men)子(zi)(zi)(zi)”。結(jie)(jie)(jie)(jie)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)儀(yi)除(chu)特(te)殊(shu)情(qing)況(kuang)外(wai)(wai)，要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)經過(guo)(guo)(guo)說媒(mei)(mei)(mei)、相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)、訂婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)、送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)子(zi)(zi)(zi)、娶(qu)(qu)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)道(dao)(dao)手(shou)(shou)續。 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也(ye)(ye)(ye)叫(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)保(bao)媒(mei)(mei)(mei)”，由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)媒(mei)(mei)(mei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)兩(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)介(jie)紹(shao)，締結(jie)(jie)(jie)(jie)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)姻(yin)(yin)關系。媒(mei)(mei)(mei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)可(ke)以(yi)(yi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)友(you)(you)、熟(shu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)可(ke)以(yi)(yi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)專(zhuan)門(men)(men)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)媒(mei)(mei)(mei)婆，他們按照(zhao)門(men)(men)當(dang)(dang)(dang)戶(hu)(hu)對(dui)(dui)、年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)齡般(ban)(ban)(ban)配、家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)境相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)當(dang)(dang)(dang)等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)基本(ben)(ben)條(tiao)(tiao)件(jian)，往(wang)(wang)返男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)說合(he)(he)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般(ban)(ban)(ban)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)對(dui)(dui)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)求(qiu)條(tiao)(tiao)件(jian)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)高(gao)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)些。若雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)有(you)(you)(you)意(yi)，則由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)大(da)(da)(da)(da)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)提(ti)(ti)(ti)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)。向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)提(ti)(ti)(ti)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)越(yue)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)，女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)越(yue)感(gan)到(dao)(dao)榮耀，即(ji)所謂“一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)百家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)求(qiu)”。如(ru)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)提(ti)(ti)(ti)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)，則會(hui)被(bei)(bei)譏(ji)諷為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)“閨女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)不(bu)(bu)(bu)出門(men)(men)了(le)(le)(le)”。舊(jiu)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，若雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)滿(man)(man)意(yi)，兩(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)互(hu)挽年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)庚帖(tie)子(zi)(zi)(zi)，把(ba)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)出生(sheng)(sheng)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)、月(yue)。日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)、時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)各(ge)寫在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)上(shang)(shang)(shang)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)，字(zi)(zi)(zi)數(shu)還(huan)(huan)必(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)須是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)數(shu)。請(qing)算(suan)(suan)命先(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)“合(he)(he)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)”，推算(suan)(suan)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)屬相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)和(he)(he)生(sheng)(sheng)辰八字(zi)(zi)(zi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)“相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)生(sheng)(sheng)”還(huan)(huan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)“相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)克(ke)”，如(ru)不(bu)(bu)(bu)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)克(ke)，才可(ke)商議結(jie)(jie)(jie)(jie)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)事(shi)。 ->相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin) 舊(jiu)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)夫(fu)妻(qi)(qi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)侗房(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)揭(jie)蓋(gai)頭(tou)(tou)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)能見(jian)(jian)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)。為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)了(le)(le)(le)防止受(shou)媒(mei)(mei)(mei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)欺瞞(man)，女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)父(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)母(mu)(mu)只能暗地(di)(di)(di)(di)里(li)(li)打(da)聽(ting)，了(le)(le)(le)解男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)貌、年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)齡與(yu)媒(mei)(mei)(mei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)說的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)否相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)符，同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)還(huan)(huan)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)打(da)聽(ting)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)和(he)(he)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭(ting)境況(kuang)。如(ru)今(jin)(jin)(jin)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)己成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)公(gong)開的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)必(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)可(ke)少(shao)(shao)(shao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)程序。相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)叫(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)“相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)對(dui)(dui)象”，是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)媒(mei)(mei)(mei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)（現叫(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)“介(jie)紹(shao)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)”）約(yue)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)到(dao)(dao)第(di)三者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)見(jian)(jian)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)，如(ru)彼此(ci)(ci)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)，即(ji)可(ke)建立戀愛(ai)關系。經過(guo)(guo)(guo)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)次(ci)交(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)往(wang)(wang)。認為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)條(tiao)(tiao)件(jian)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)熟(shu)，就(jiu)(jiu)安排(pai)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)到(dao)(dao)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)“驗家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)”。驗家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)往(wang)(wang)往(wang)(wang)會(hui)影響到(dao)(dao)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)姻(yin)(yin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)敗，畫此(ci)(ci)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)把(ba)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)好(hao)好(hao)裝(zhuang)修(xiu)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)番，把(ba)值錢(qian)(qian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)東西亮出來(lai)(lai)，家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)長(chang)(chang)也(ye)(ye)(ye)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)穿戴整(zheng)(zheng)潔，有(you)(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)甚至借用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)外(wai)(wai)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)東西，以(yi)(yi)顯示自(zi)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)富有(you)(you)(you)。驗家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)準(zhun)備酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)飯(fan)和(he)(he)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)棧，女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)若滿(man)(man)意(yi)就(jiu)(jiu)會(hui)答應留下(xia)吃(chi)飯(fan)，若叫(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)聲(sheng)“爹、媽(ma)(ma)”，男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)父(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)母(mu)(mu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)掏(tao)錢(qian)(qian)給(gei)(gei)(gei)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，叫(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)“見(jian)(jian)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)”，這門(men)(men)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)事(shi)就(jiu)(jiu)算(suan)(suan)定(ding)(ding)(ding)(ding)下(xia)了(le)(le)(le)。 ->定(ding)(ding)(ding)(ding)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun) 俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“定(ding)(ding)(ding)(ding)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)”或(huo)“下(xia)媒(mei)(mei)(mei)柬”。過(guo)(guo)(guo)去(qu)，燈婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)換(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)束(shu)，由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)準(zhun)備柬帖(tie)兩(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)張，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)張寫明(ming)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)齡和(he)(he)主(zhu)(zhu)辰八字(zi)(zi)(zi)，封(feng)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)寫上(shang)(shang)(shang)“敬(jing)求(qiu)金諾”等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)求(qiu)字(zi)(zi)(zi)樣，用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)紅(hong)(hong)漆匣裝(zhuang)好(hao)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)往(wang)(wang)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)。女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)接柬后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)，照(zhao)樣填燈另(ling)(ling)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)張，寫上(shang)(shang)(shang)“謹遵玉言”或(huo)“愿(yuan)結(jie)(jie)(jie)(jie)秦晉”等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)允親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)字(zi)(zi)(zi)樣送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)還(huan)(huan)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)，表(biao)(biao)示同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)意(yi)結(jie)(jie)(jie)(jie)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)。訂婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)“定(ding)(ding)(ding)(ding)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)”（即(ji)“禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)”），富家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)金銀首飾、綢緞(duan)衣料和(he)(he)錢(qian)(qian)財(cai)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般(ban)(ban)(ban)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)布(bu)(bu)料，稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)衣裳面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)”如(ru)今(jin)(jin)(jin)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)些農(nong)村(cun)(cun)，要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)之(zhi)風(feng)(feng)(feng)仍(reng)(reng)很(hen)(hen)興盛，訂婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)衣物、器具都追求(qiu)高(gao)檔，給(gei)(gei)(gei)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)造(zao)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)財(cai)力負(fu)擔。訂婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)，雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)夫(fu)妻(qi)(qi)關系算(suan)(suan)正(zheng)式(shi)(shi)確(que)立，別人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)就(jiu)(jiu)不(bu)(bu)(bu)再(zai)(zai)來(lai)(lai)求(qiu)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)了(le)(le)(le)。 ->送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)子(zi)(zi)(zi) 過(guo)(guo)(guo)去(qu)，男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)將(jiang)(jiang)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)期寫成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)柬帖(tie)，叫(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)“婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)書(shu)”送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)往(wang)(wang)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)。婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)書(shu)上(shang)(shang)(shang)除(chu)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)期外(wai)(wai)，還(huan)(huan)有(you)(you)(you)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)下(xia)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)內(nei)容，都是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)請(qing)算(suan)(suan)命先(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)事(shi)前(qian)(qian)卜(bu)定(ding)(ding)(ding)(ding)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)書(shu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)期前(qian)(qian)40天(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)發(fa)(fa)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)，以(yi)(yi)便雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)都有(you)(you)(you)較充(chong)分的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)準(zhun)備時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)間。如(ru)今(jin)(jin)(jin)，此(ci)(ci)俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)已(yi)(yi)廢除(chu)。 ->送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang) 婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)期前(qian)(qian)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)天(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)，女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)，俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“過(guo)(guo)(guo)嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)”。嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)箱、柜、桌(zhuo)、椅(yi)、被(bei)(bei)褥(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)生(sheng)(sheng)活必(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)備品，被(bei)(bei)褥(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)則講究(jiu)“兩(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)鋪(pu)兩(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)蓋(gai)”（兩(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)床被(bei)(bei)、兩(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)床褥(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)子(zi)(zi)(zi)），或(huo)“四鋪(pu)四蓋(gai)” 舊(jiu)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，富家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)大(da)(da)(da)(da)戶(hu)(hu)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)擺闊氣，雇(gu)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)挑(tiao)夫(fu)抬嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)，由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)濱(bin)陪(pei)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)，送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)隊伍(wu)浩浩蕩蕩。貧(pin)(pin)寒人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)貝！將(jiang)(jiang)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)子(zi)(zi)(zi)常用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)衣服、被(bei)(bei)褥(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)必(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)需用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)品托入(ru)(ru)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)到(dao)(dao)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)，或(huo)由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)派人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)夾取。但(dan)(dan)(dan)無(wu)(wu)論嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)少(shao)(shao)(shao)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)對(dui)(dui)“長(chang)(chang)命燈”是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)可(ke)少(shao)(shao)(shao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)走(zou)嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)，女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)請(qing)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)公(gong)婆、夫(fu)婿(xu)、兒(er)(er)(er)(er)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)皆(jie)全(quan)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)婦女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)給(gei)(gei)(gei)待(dai)(dai)嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)兒(er)(er)(er)(er)“開臉”和(he)(he)“上(shang)(shang)(shang)頭(tou)(tou)”。開臉是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)紅(hong)(hong)線把(ba)臉上(shang)(shang)(shang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)汗毛(mao)絞悼，上(shang)(shang)(shang)頭(tou)(tou)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)把(ba)發(fa)(fa)辮縮成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)舍。開臉、上(shang)(shang)(shang)頭(tou)(tou)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)表(biao)(biao)示姑(gu)(gu)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)已(yi)(yi)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)媳(xi)(xi)婦。如(ru)今(jin)(jin)(jin)，青島農(nong)村(cun)(cun)仍(reng)(reng)有(you)(you)(you)“送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)”、“開臉”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)習(xi)俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)綰髻(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)已(yi)(yi)很(hen)(hen)少(shao)(shao)(shao)了(le)(le)(le)。嶗山、即(ji)墨等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)地(di)(di)(di)(di)還(huan)(huan)有(you)(you)(you)“鋪(pu)房(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)習(xi)俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)。由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)來(lai)(lai)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)妝(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)(zhuang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)儐(bin)(bin)和(he)(he)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起(qi)(qi)安床、鋪(pu)床。床的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)四周(zhou)放(fang)上(shang)(shang)(shang)粟子(zi)(zi)(zi)和(he)(he)棗(zao)，鋪(pu)上(shang)(shang)(shang)被(bei)(bei)褥(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)再(zai)(zai)讓一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)小(xiao)(xiao)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)孩在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)上(shang)(shang)(shang)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)打(da)幾(ji)(ji)個(ge)(ge)滾，以(yi)(yi)求(qiu)早(zao)生(sheng)(sheng)貴子(zi)(zi)(zi)。 ->娶(qu)(qu)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin) 娶(qu)(qu)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)最熱鬧(nao)也(ye)(ye)(ye)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)最繁(fan)(fan)瑣的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)環(huan)節(jie)。舊(jiu)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，有(you)(you)(you)錢(qian)(qian)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)雇(gu)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)兩(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)乖，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)乘(cheng)(cheng)叫(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)“官轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)”，由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)乘(cheng)(cheng)坐(zuo)；新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)坐(zuo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)那乘(cheng)(cheng)叫(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)“花轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)”。新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)到(dao)(dao)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)迎(ying)娶(qu)(qu)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)先(xian)拜(bai)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)祖(zu)先(xian)和(he)(he)父(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)母(mu)(mu)，叫(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)“謝(xie)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)”，隨后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)客(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)陪(pei)著(zhu)(zhu)吃(chi)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)條(tiao)(tiao)和(he)(he)雞蛋。新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)離(li)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)兩(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)腳不(bu)(bu)(bu)能沾土，要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)兄(xiong)(xiong)弟(di)抱著(zhu)(zhu)上(shang)(shang)(shang)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)。轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)里(li)(li)放(fang)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)包有(you)(you)(you)臉盆(pen)和(he)(he)鏡(jing)子(zi)(zi)(zi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)包袱（意(yi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)“包福”）．新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)手(shou)(shou)里(li)(li)拿一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)條(tiao)(tiao)手(shou)(shou)帕，路上(shang)(shang)(shang)遇見(jian)(jian)另(ling)(ling)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)結(jie)(jie)(jie)(jie)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)隊伍(wu)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)可(ke)與(yu)另(ling)(ling)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)交(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)換(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)。交(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)換(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)手(shou)(shou)帕后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)可(ke)視(shi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)姊妹·有(you)(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)以(yi)(yi)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)可(ke)當(dang)(dang)(dang)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)戚(qi)(qi)往(wang)(wang)來(lai)(lai)。花轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)起(qi)(qi)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)母(mu)(mu)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)或(huo)嫂子(zi)(zi)(zi)還(huan)(huan)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)把(ba)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)瓢水(shui)(shui)潑向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)門(men)(men)外(wai)(wai)，意(yi)思是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)出去(qu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)閨女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)和(he)(he)潑出的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)水(shui)(shui)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)樣，無(wu)(wu)法收回(hui)(hui)(hui)。新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)自(zi)到(dao)(dao)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)迎(ying)娶(qu)(qu)，稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)作“迎(ying)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)”。一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般(ban)(ban)(ban)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)雇(gu)花轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)乘(cheng)(cheng)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)先(xian)坐(zuo)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)，由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)夫(fu)抬著(zhu)(zhu)走(zou)十幾(ji)(ji)步(bu)，叫(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)“壓(ya)(ya)壓(ya)(ya)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)”再(zai)(zai)由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)弟(di)兄(xiong)(xiong)到(dao)(dao)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)接新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)候，稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)”。貧(pin)(pin)窮人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)雇(gu)不(bu)(bu)(bu)起(qi)(qi)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)，只能用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)毛(mao)驢或(huo)小(xiao)(xiao)推車(che)(che)(che)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)到(dao)(dao)婆家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)，稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)”。新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)下(xia)轎(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)，由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)兩(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)個(ge)(ge)伴娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)攙(chan)扶(fu)進(jin)院(yuan)(yuan)與(yu)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)拜(bai)天(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)地(di)(di)(di)(di)，然(ran)(ran)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)塊(kuai)紅(hong)(hong)綢牽(qian)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)進(jin)入(ru)(ru)洞(dong)(dong)房(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)。洞(dong)(dong)房(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)秤(cheng)桿(gan)將(jiang)(jiang)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)蓋(gai)頭(tou)(tou)挑(tiao)下(xia)。二(er)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)飲“交(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)杯酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)”，也(ye)(ye)(ye)叫(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)“同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)心酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)”，至此(ci)(ci)，夫(fu)妻(qi)(qi)關系就(jiu)(jiu)算(suan)(suan)正(zheng)式(shi)(shi)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)立。鬧(nao)房(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)必(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)可(ke)少(shao)(shao)(shao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)話說“新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)三日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)無(wu)(wu)大(da)(da)(da)(da)小(xiao)(xiao)”。所以(yi)(yi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)分大(da)(da)(da)(da)小(xiao)(xiao)輩份，親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)友(you)(you)都可(ke)以(yi)(yi)鬧(nao)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)房(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)捉弄新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)，由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)于(yu)鄉俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)以(yi)(yi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)不(bu)(bu)(bu)鬧(nao)不(bu)(bu)(bu)喜(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)、越(yue)鬧(nao)越(yue)吉(ji)利(li)，因此(ci)(ci)，鬧(nao)房(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)常會(hui)使新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)叫(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)苦(ku)不(bu)(bu)(bu)迭。婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)3天(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)陪(pei)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)回(hui)(hui)(hui)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)，叫(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)“口門(men)(men)”。膠(jiao)州等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)地(di)(di)(di)(di)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)第(di)2天(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)、新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)到(dao)(dao)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)認親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)，第(di)3夭返回(hui)(hui)(hui)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)，第(di)6天(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)父(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)兄(xiong)(xiong)或(huo)弟(di)侄(zhi)到(dao)(dao)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)探親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)，第(di)9天(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)接新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)回(hui)(hui)(hui)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)，叫(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)做(zuo)“叫(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)二(er)，還(huan)(huan)三，住九(jiu)”。以(yi)(yi)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)按正(zheng)常親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)戚(qi)(qi)走(zou)動。建國(guo)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)至今(jin)(jin)(jin)，婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)風(feng)(feng)(feng)俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)發(fa)(fa)生(sheng)(sheng)了(le)(le)(le)很(hen)(hen)大(da)(da)(da)(da)變化(hua)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)些特(te)殊(shu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)陋俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)已(yi)(yi)絕跡。有(you)(you)(you)些婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)姻(yin)(yin)形式(shi)(shi)，如(ru)“贅(zhui)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)”、“換(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)”，尚在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)青島地(di)(di)(di)(di)區(qu)(qu)(qu)流(liu)行(xing)(xing)(xing)。“贅(zhui)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)”稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“入(ru)(ru)贅(zhui)”俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)“招養老女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)婿(xu)”、“倒插(cha)門(men)(men)”，是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)娶(qu)(qu)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)姻(yin)(yin)形式(shi)(shi)。過(guo)(guo)(guo)去(qu)，有(you)(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭(ting)無(wu)(wu)子(zi)(zi)(zi)，為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)繼承家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)業、傳延子(zi)(zi)(zi)嗣、養老送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)終(zhong)，或(huo)因舍不(bu)(bu)(bu)得女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)兒(er)(er)(er)(er)遠離(li)，便設(she)法招贅(zhui)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)婿(xu)入(ru)(ru)門(men)(men)。“贅(zhui)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)”也(ye)(ye)(ye)舉行(xing)(xing)(xing)迎(ying)娶(qu)(qu)、拜(bai)堂等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)札儀(yi)程序，但(dan)(dan)(dan)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)比男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)娶(qu)(qu)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)簡單(dan)得多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)。養老女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)婿(xu)大(da)(da)(da)(da)都是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)境貧(pin)(pin)寒、兄(xiong)(xiong)弟(di)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)、無(wu)(wu)力娶(qu)(qu)妻(qi)(qi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)子(zi)(zi)(zi)，進(jin)門(men)(men)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)隨妻(qi)(qi)改換(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)姓氏。如(ru)今(jin)(jin)(jin)，經男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)意(yi)，男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)于(yu)自(zi)愿(yuan)到(dao)(dao)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)贅(zhui)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)必(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)改性，其(qi)子(zi)(zi)(zi)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)從(cong)妻(qi)(qi)姓。 “換(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)”是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)兩(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)(liang)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)將(jiang)(jiang)子(zi)(zi)(zi)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)互(hu)換(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)給(gei)(gei)(gei)對(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)作兒(er)(er)(er)(er)媳(xi)(xi)和(he)(he)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)婿(xu)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)有(you)(you)(you)三家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)互(hu)換(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)（甲家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)子(zi)(zi)(zi)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)換(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)給(gei)(gei)(gei)乙家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)，乙家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)子(zi)(zi)(zi)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)換(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)給(gei)(gei)(gei)丙(bing)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)，丙(bing)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)子(zi)(zi)(zi)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)換(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)給(gei)(gei)(gei)甲家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)），叫(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)做(zuo)“轉轉親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)”。換(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)父(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)母(mu)(mu)作主(zhu)(zhu)，幾(ji)(ji)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)子(zi)(zi)(zi)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)很(hen)(hen)難個(ge)(ge)個(ge)(ge)滿(man)(man)意(yi)，因此(ci)(ci)，往(wang)(wang)往(wang)(wang)造(zao)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭(ting)不(bu)(bu)(bu)幸和(he)(he)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)姻(yin)(yin)悲劇。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)儀(yi)上(shang)(shang)(shang)，過(guo)(guo)(guo)去(qu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)些繁(fan)(fan)文(wen)褥(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)節(jie)如(ru)今(jin)(jin)(jin)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)青島地(di)(di)(di)(di)區(qu)(qu)(qu)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)已(yi)(yi)廢棄。婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)期不(bu)(bu)(bu)再(zai)(zai)講究(jiu)“黃道(dao)(dao)吉(ji)日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)”，而(er)選(xuan)五一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)、國(guo)慶、新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)節(jie)日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)不(bu)(bu)(bu)少(shao)(shao)(shao)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)農(nong)歷的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)仍(reng)(reng)受(shou)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)喜(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)歡。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)農(nong)村(cun)(cun)．新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)到(dao)(dao)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)迎(ying)娶(qu)(qu)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)“謝(xie)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)”、吃(chi)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)條(tiao)(tiao)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)進(jin)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)拜(bai)公(gong)婆、喝交(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)杯酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)、鬧(nao)房(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，以(yi)(yi)及婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)3天(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)回(hui)(hui)(hui)門(men)(men)等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)風(feng)(feng)(feng)俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)仍(reng)(reng)沿襲了(le)(le)(le)下(xia)來(lai)(lai)。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)市區(qu)(qu)(qu)，婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)嫁(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)儀(yi)更趨向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)簡單(dan)化(hua)。一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般(ban)(ban)(ban)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)結(jie)(jie)(jie)(jie)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)當(dang)(dang)(dang)天(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)(tian)上(shang)(shang)(shang)午(wu)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)由(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)儐(bin)(bin)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)陪(pei)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)到(dao)(dao)女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)迎(ying)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)岳父(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)母(mu)(mu)鞠躬致謝(xie)。并(bing)與(yu)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起(qi)(qi)吃(chi)餃子(zi)(zi)(zi)，吃(chi)餃子(zi)(zi)(zi)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)碗(wan)里(li)(li)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)剩雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)數(shu)。隨后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)接新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)返回(hui)(hui)(hui)，到(dao)(dao)男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)間必(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)須趕在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)午(wu)12點(dian)前(qian)(qian)，所謂“不(bu)(bu)(bu)能誤了(le)(le)(le)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)辰”。至男(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)(nan)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)、新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin) 娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)吃(chi)“寬心面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)”。現在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)接回(hui)(hui)(hui)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)，多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)賓館或(huo)飯(fan)店(dian)舉行(xing)(xing)(xing)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)。親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)友(you)(you)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)祝賀，賀禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)除(chu)裝(zhuang)飾品、實用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)品外(wai)(wai)，近(jin)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)送(song)(song)(song)(song)(song)“喜(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)錢(qian)(qian)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)居(ju)(ju)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)。中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)午(wu)設(she)酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)宴招待(dai)(dai)賓朋，桌(zhuo)數(shu)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)少(shao)(shao)(shao)不(bu)(bu)(bu)等(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)(deng)，少(shao)(shao)(shao)者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)數(shu)桌(zhuo)，多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)數(shu)十桌(zhuo)。席間，新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)郎(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)(lang)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)娘(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)(niang)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)客(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)敬(jing)酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)，客(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)以(yi)(yi)吉(ji)言相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)賀。同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，女(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)(nv)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)設(she)宴，招待(dai)(dai)自(zi)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)親(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)(qin)戚(qi)(qi)。近(jin)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)來(lai)(lai)，許多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)青年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)選(xuan)擇(ze)旅行(xing)(xing)(xing)結(jie)(jie)(jie)(jie)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)，到(dao)(dao)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)些旅游點(dian)度蜜月(yue)。多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)數(shu)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)夫(fu)婦在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)后(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)(hou)，著(zhu)(zhu)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)服、披婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)紗(sha)，倘祥在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)海(hai)濱(bin)沙灘(tan)上(shang)(shang)(shang)，照(zhao)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)、錄(lu)(lu)像(xiang)，近(jin)幾(ji)(ji)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)，尤(you)其(qi)5到(dao)(dao)10月(yue)份，每逢“吉(ji)日(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)(ri)”，眾(zhong)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)著(zhu)(zhu)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)紗(sha)聚集(ji)海(hai)灣(wan)景區(qu)(qu)(qu)錄(lu)(lu)像(xiang)紀念，成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)島城一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)景，為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)青島的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)婚(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)(hun)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)民俗(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)(su)增添(tian)了(le)(le)(le)新(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)特(te)色。...

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