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保持心態，冷靜觀察；放下心態，隨其自然；心中無物，自然無憂；心念先亂，桃花紛飛；心如水靜，桃花不入。
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放(fang)下(xia)(xia)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)態(tai)，無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)憂(you)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)慮；遠離欲(yu)(yu)望(wang)，心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)外無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)物(wu)(wu)；內心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)安詳，自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)得(de)其樂(le)。對(dui)于每一(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)來(lai)說(shuo)，自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)態(tai)最(zui)重(zhong)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)。相信(xin)(xin)(xin)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)比(bi)(bi)什(shen)么都重(zhong)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)。調(diao)一(yi)(yi)(yi)下(xia)(xia)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)態(tai)，悟一(yi)(yi)(yi)下(xia)(xia)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)——有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)道(dao)(dao)(dao)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，想(xiang)開了(le)(le)(le)，自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)在(zai)(zai)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)憂(you)；想(xiang)不(bu)(bu)(bu)開，煩惱(nao)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)身(shen)。金(jin)錢、權利(li)、情(qing)(qing)感、物(wu)(wu)質(zhi)皆為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)身(shen)外之(zhi)(zhi)物(wu)(wu)。你(ni)可(ke)(ke)(ke)以這(zhe)(zhe)樣(yang)(yang)想(xiang)一(yi)(yi)(yi)想(xiang)：人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)沒(mei)(mei)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)絕對(dui)，只有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)相對(dui)；要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)隨其自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)然，不(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)刻(ke)意；一(yi)(yi)(yi)切隨緣，水到(dao)渠成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)；參考(kao)星座，不(bu)(bu)(bu)可(ke)(ke)(ke)癡(chi)迷(mi)(mi)。有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)道(dao)(dao)(dao)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，“一(yi)(yi)(yi)命(ming)二運(yun)(yun)三(san)(san)(san)風(feng)水，四(si)積陰(yin)功(gong)五讀書(shu)”，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)變(bian)化發展很(hen)(hen)(hen)大程度(du)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)取決于自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)把握。記住，一(yi)(yi)(yi)命(ming)天生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)不(bu)(bu)(bu)可(ke)(ke)(ke)違(wei)，二三(san)(san)(san)四(si)五把命(ming)調(diao)；二運(yun)(yun)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)指跟隨人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，遇(yu)到(dao)貴人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)不(bu)(bu)(bu)可(ke)(ke)(ke)失；三(san)(san)(san)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)風(feng)水最(zui)重(zhong)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)，陰(yin)宅陽宅需(xu)(xu)調(diao)順(shun)；四(si)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)廣積陰(yin)陽功(gong)，佛(fo)道(dao)(dao)(dao)圣仙自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)超度(du)；五為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)讀書(shu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)儒宗，書(shu)中(zhong)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)轉運(yun)(yun)經。你(ni)嘗試著這(zhe)(zhe)樣(yang)(yang)來(lai)考(kao)慮人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)：記住人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)只有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)“更(geng)”，沒(mei)(mei)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)“最(zui)”，反思(si)一(yi)(yi)(yi)下(xia)(xia)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)，你(ni)會(hui)知(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)道(dao)(dao)(dao)很(hen)(hen)(hen)多(duo)(duo)(duo)——人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)短(duan)暫的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)很(hen)(hen)(hen)多(duo)(duo)(duo)緣，親情(qing)(qing)、同學、同事(shi)(shi)、戀人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)、情(qing)(qing)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)、夫妻、戰友、貴人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)、小(xiao)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)、敵(di)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)、恩人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)……先(xian)調(diao)整一(yi)(yi)(yi)下(xia)(xia)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)態(tai)；人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)很(hen)(hen)(hen)多(duo)(duo)(duo)重(zhong)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)時(shi)(shi)刻(ke)，成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)長的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)煩惱(nao)、升學的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)迷(mi)(mi)惑、情(qing)(qing)感的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)迷(mi)(mi)離、求(qiu)(qiu)(qiu)職的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)艱(jian)辛、成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)功(gong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)喜(xi)(xi)(xi)悅、失敗的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)教(jiao)訓、初(chu)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)父(fu)(fu)（母(mu)(mu)）、孩子的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)長、病床(chuang)前的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)遺(yi)愿(yuan)(yuan)、世(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)后(hou)(hou)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)期望(wang)……所以人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)調(diao)整心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)態(tai)。想(xiang)一(yi)(yi)(yi)想(xiang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)什(shen)么而(er)(er)活(huo)？人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)活(huo)著不(bu)(bu)(bu)論為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)什(shen)么都有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)它自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)身(shen)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)道(dao)(dao)(dao)理(li)(li)。各有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)利(li)弊，各有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)所需(xu)(xu)。隨著時(shi)(shi)間，需(xu)(xu)求(qiu)(qiu)(qiu)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)明(ming)。是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)對(dui)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)錯(cuo)，沒(mei)(mei)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)絕對(dui)。此(ci)(ci)時(shi)(shi)彼時(shi)(shi)，對(dui)錯(cuo)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)當。有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)些對(dui)錯(cuo)，后(hou)(hou)世(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)評論。面(mian)(mian)(mian)對(dui)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)，當實。要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)順(shun)其自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)然，順(shun)勢(shi)而(er)(er)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)。比(bi)(bi)如說(shuo)愛情(qing)(qing)——愛情(qing)(qing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)起(qi)(qi)因有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)三(san)(san)(san)種(zhong)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)物(wu)(wu)質(zhi)基(ji)礎；二是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)精(jing)神(shen)基(ji)礎；三(san)(san)(san)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)性(xing)(xing)關(guan)系。這(zhe)(zhe)三(san)(san)(san)種(zhong)具備其一(yi)(yi)(yi)，就(jiu)可(ke)(ke)(ke)產生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)愛情(qing)(qing)。物(wu)(wu)質(zhi)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)作用使(shi)(shi)你(ni)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)了(le)(le)(le)保(bao)障(zhang)；精(jing)神(shen)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)作用使(shi)(shi)你(ni)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)了(le)(le)(le)依(yi)托；性(xing)(xing)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)作用使(shi)(shi)你(ni)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)了(le)(le)(le)快(kuai)樂(le)。同樣(yang)(yang)，當三(san)(san)(san)種(zhong)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)一(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)嚴重(zhong)缺失，那么愛情(qing)(qing)也將(jiang)喪失。以上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)道(dao)(dao)(dao)理(li)(li)在(zai)(zai)婚(hun)姻(yin)家庭上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)也是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)如此(ci)(ci)。但是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，婚(hun)姻(yin)與愛情(qing)(qing)畢竟不(bu)(bu)(bu)完(wan)全相同。當沒(mei)(mei)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)金(jin)錢為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)基(ji)礎時(shi)(shi)，婚(hun)姻(yin)會(hui)很(hen)(hen)(hen)快(kuai)出(chu)(chu)(chu)現(xian)危機(ji)乃至(zhi)消亡，而(er)(er)愛情(qing)(qing)可(ke)(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)還會(hui)延(yan)續一(yi)(yi)(yi)段，但是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)將(jiang)出(chu)(chu)(chu)現(xian)裂痕、出(chu)(chu)(chu)現(xian)不(bu)(bu)(bu)唯一(yi)(yi)(yi)，如果(guo)不(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)改觀，終(zhong)將(jiang)消亡。這(zhe)(zhe)從(cong)哲學上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)、從(cong)現(xian)實基(ji)礎上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)，均能(neng)(neng)找(zhao)到(dao)它的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)客觀依(yi)據(ju)。人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)需(xu)(xu)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)欺(qi)欺(qi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，必須客觀和(he)面(mian)(mian)(mian)對(dui)現(xian)實。這(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)奈(nai)(nai)。人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)走(zou)過(guo)多(duo)(duo)(duo)少(shao)(shao)路，就(jiu)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)多(duo)(duo)(duo)少(shao)(shao)選擇；人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)經歷多(duo)(duo)(duo)少(shao)(shao)事(shi)(shi)，就(jiu)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)多(duo)(duo)(duo)少(shao)(shao)選擇；這(zhe)(zhe)就(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)。順(shun)勢(shi)而(er)(er)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，去做自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)；任憑風(feng)雨，不(bu)(bu)(bu)做別人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)就(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)。人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)只有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)“更(geng)”，沒(mei)(mei)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)“最(zui)”，努(nu)(nu)力(li)(li)去做自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)認為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)完(wan)美吧。人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)努(nu)(nu)力(li)(li)完(wan)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)各種(zhong)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)愿(yuan)(yuan)，自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)、父(fu)(fu)母(mu)(mu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)、情(qing)(qing)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)、朋友的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)、上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)司的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)、同事(shi)(shi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)……完(wan)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)他(ta)們的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)愿(yuan)(yuan)與自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)愿(yuan)(yuan)構(gou)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)了(le)(le)(le)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)道(dao)(dao)(dao)路。保(bao)持(chi)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)態(tai)，淡泊寧靜(jing)(jing)。無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)欲(yu)(yu)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)求(qiu)(qiu)(qiu)，自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)得(de)其樂(le)。無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)欲(yu)(yu)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)求(qiu)(qiu)(qiu)，怎樣(yang)(yang)理(li)(li)解？順(shun)勢(shi)而(er)(er)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)然快(kuai)樂(le)。逆勢(shi)而(er)(er)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)少(shao)(shao)敗多(duo)(duo)(duo)。若(ruo)(ruo)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)聰(cong)明(ming)，克制欲(yu)(yu)望(wang)。適(shi)可(ke)(ke)(ke)而(er)(er)止，方為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)高人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。若(ruo)(ruo)說(shuo)丑(chou)事(shi)(shi)，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)都有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)。若(ruo)(ruo)說(shuo)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)功(gong)，鳳(feng)毛麟角。世(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)道(dao)(dao)(dao)競爭，適(shi)者(zhe)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)存。身(shen)外之(zhi)(zhi)物(wu)(wu)，茁實短(duan)暫。若(ruo)(ruo)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)長久，修身(shen)養(yang)性(xing)(xing)。佛(fo)道(dao)(dao)(dao)至(zhi)理(li)(li)，告誡眾生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)：痛苦之(zhi)(zhi)源(yuan)，欲(yu)(yu)望(wang)之(zhi)(zhi)始。無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)欲(yu)(yu)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)求(qiu)(qiu)(qiu)，的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)確很(hen)(hen)(hen)難，倘若(ruo)(ruo)容易，何(he)來(lai)高人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)？人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)，無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)奈(nai)(nai)很(hen)(hen)(hen)多(duo)(duo)(duo)。面(mian)(mian)(mian)對(dui)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)奈(nai)(nai)，信(xin)(xin)(xin)與不(bu)(bu)(bu)信(xin)(xin)(xin)？信(xin)(xin)(xin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)示弱(ruo)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)信(xin)(xin)(xin)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)欺(qi)。久旱少(shao)(shao)甘露，他(ta)鄉無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)故知(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)，月夜守空(kong)房，金(jin)榜未(wei)題名。人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)多(duo)(duo)(duo)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)奈(nai)(nai)，總感愿(yuan)(yuan)未(wei)了(le)(le)(le)，東奔西走(zou)來(lai)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)知(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)何(he)處(chu)去。人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)還要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)走(zou)，怎能(neng)(neng)不(bu)(bu)(bu)憂(you)郁(yu)？若(ruo)(ruo)能(neng)(neng)入空(kong)門(men)，也許(xu)憂(you)郁(yu)了(le)(le)(le)。人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)，變(bian)化莫測(ce)；喜(xi)(xi)(xi)憂(you)悲歡(huan)，總無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)定(ding)數；少(shao)(shao)年(nian)遺(yi)棄，中(zhong)年(nian)背叛(pan)，老(lao)年(nian)孤獨，此(ci)(ci)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)三(san)(san)(san)悲；一(yi)(yi)(yi)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)在(zai)(zai)世(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，患得(de)患失；剛降(jiang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)世(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，哭叫求(qiu)(qiu)(qiu)索；童年(nian)喜(xi)(xi)(xi)悅，相比(bi)(bi)則憂(you)；少(shao)(shao)年(nian)逞強，遇(yu)挫則折；青年(nian)困惑，情(qing)(qing)感迷(mi)(mi)茫；即(ji)便成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)家，柴米油鹽；中(zhong)年(nian)事(shi)(shi)業(ye)，勞累(lei)奔波；為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)顧(gu)老(lao)少(shao)(shao)，低三(san)(san)(san)下(xia)(xia)四(si)；中(zhong)晚求(qiu)(qiu)(qiu)財，鏡(jing)中(zhong)觀花；末年(nian)天倫，子孫(sun)不(bu)(bu)(bu)孝(xiao)；行將(jiang)離世(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，愿(yuan)(yuan)望(wang)未(wei)了(le)(le)(le)； 走(zou)過(guo)一(yi)(yi)(yi)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)，無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)奈(nai)(nai)多(duo)(duo)(duo)多(duo)(duo)(duo)；若(ruo)(ruo)問何(he)懼(ju)，處(chu)處(chu)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)俱；若(ruo)(ruo)問何(he)恐(kong)，時(shi)(shi)時(shi)(shi)遇(yu)恐(kong)；身(shen)在(zai)(zai)紅塵(chen)，豈無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)懼(ju)怕；若(ruo)(ruo)欲(yu)(yu)脫(tuo)塵(chen)，心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)中(zhong)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)物(wu)(wu)。保(bao)持(chi)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)態(tai)，至(zhi)關(guan)重(zhong)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)。想(xiang)想(xiang)別人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，學會(hui)知(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)足。順(shun)其自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)然，一(yi)(yi)(yi)切隨緣。人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)憂(you)歡(huan)，否(fou)極泰(tai)來(lai)。選定(ding)追求(qiu)(qiu)(qiu)，更(geng)重(zhong)過(guo)程。心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)境(jing)平和(he)，靜(jing)(jing)觀其變(bian)。不(bu)(bu)(bu)求(qiu)(qiu)(qiu)得(de)到(dao)，只求(qiu)(qiu)(qiu)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)安。人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)不(bu)(bu)(bu)比(bi)(bi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，關(guan)愛自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)我(wo)。 善待他(ta)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，佛(fo)報因果(guo)。面(mian)(mian)(mian)對(dui)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)奈(nai)(nai)，打起(qi)(qi)精(jing)神(shen)。跳出(chu)(chu)(chu)圈外，審視(shi)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)我(wo)。控(kong)制欲(yu)(yu)望(wang)，神(shen)仙無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)奈(nai)(nai)。做到(dao)如此(ci)(ci)，運(yun)(yun)氣自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)來(lai)。若(ruo)(ruo)能(neng)(neng)如此(ci)(ci)，心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)情(qing)(qing)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)好(hao)。始終(zhong)如此(ci)(ci)，天命(ming)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)知(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)。人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)每一(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)關(guan)鍵點，也就(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)每個(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)魅力(li)(li)點，構(gou)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)了(le)(le)(le)流年(nian)。每到(dao)了(le)(le)(le)關(guan)鍵時(shi)(shi)刻(ke)一(yi)(yi)(yi)定(ding)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)把握好(hao)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)優勢(shi)，把握好(hao)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)魅力(li)(li)所在(zai)(zai)，這(zhe)(zhe)樣(yang)(yang)你(ni)就(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)聰(cong)明(ming)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。——降(jiang)臨世(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)間父(fu)(fu)母(mu)(mu)喜(xi)(xi)(xi)、少(shao)(shao)兒(er)初(chu)長快(kuai)樂(le)時(shi)(shi)、學業(ye)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)報喜(xi)(xi)(xi)時(shi)(shi)、踏入社會(hui)錄(lu)用時(shi)(shi)、遇(yu)到(dao)情(qing)(qing)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)癡(chi)情(qing)(qing)時(shi)(shi)、上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)風(feng)榮(rong)譽(yu)加(jia)身(shen)時(shi)(shi)、喜(xi)(xi)(xi)結(jie)良緣典禮(li)時(shi)(shi)、初(chu)得(de)貴子懷抱(bao)時(shi)(shi)、小(xiao)兒(er)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)長無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)憂(you)時(shi)(shi)、成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)家立業(ye)光宗時(shi)(shi)、榮(rong)歸(gui)故里受迎時(shi)(shi)、病榻床(chuang)前人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)排隊(dui)、子孫(sun)不(bu)(bu)(bu)斷報捷(jie)時(shi)(shi)、彌留(liu)之(zhi)(zhi)際有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)依(yi)托、手書(shu)遺(yi)囑子孫(sun)孝(xiao)、心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)遺(yi)憾西歸(gui)去、上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)得(de)墻上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)兒(er)孫(sun)拜(bai)、一(yi)(yi)(yi)代一(yi)(yi)(yi)代香(xiang)火(huo)延(yan)，此(ci)(ci)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)魅力(li)(li)時(shi)(shi)！努(nu)(nu)力(li)(li)去把握自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)我(wo)吧。其實，想(xiang)開了(le)(le)(le)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)切也就(jiu)明(ming)白了(le)(le)(le)。人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)若(ruo)(ruo)想(xiang)知(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)命(ming)，先(xian)調(diao)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)態(tai)。首先(xian)調(diao)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)，其次反思(si)，接著慧通(tong)，然后(hou)(hou)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)欲(yu)(yu)，最(zui)后(hou)(hou)知(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)天意、明(ming)事(shi)(shi)理(li)(li)、通(tong)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)性(xing)(xing)、懂命(ming)運(yun)(yun)。我(wo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)回(hui)答不(bu)(bu)(bu)知(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)對(dui)你(ni)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)幫助嗎？...
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