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十(shi)(shi)二(er)(er)(er)歲(sui)(sui)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)孩子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)初(chu)(chu)長(chang)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)，二(er)(er)(er)十(shi)(shi)四歲(sui)(sui)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)初(chu)(chu)入(ru)社(she)(she)會(hui)，三十(shi)(shi)六(liu)歲(sui)(sui)則是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)熟(shu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)時(shi)(shi)(shi)候，四十(shi)(shi)八(ba)歲(sui)(sui)時(shi)(shi)(shi)應(ying)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)功(gong)(gong)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)名就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)齡，六(liu)十(shi)(shi)歲(sui)(sui)該(gai)(gai)(gai)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)激流勇退的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)時(shi)(shi)(shi)光，七十(shi)(shi)二(er)(er)(er)歲(sui)(sui)則可以(yi)(yi)頤養(yang)天(tian)(tian)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)。本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)系(xi)(xi)(xi)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)腰(yao)(yao)(yao)帶(dai)、穿(chuan)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)內(nei)(nei)褲(ku)（褲(ku)衩(cha)）、紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)襪(wa)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)。三者可選(xuan)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)而(er)做(zuo)。 “本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)”就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)十(shi)(shi)二(er)(er)(er)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)—遇的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)農歷(li)屬相(xiang)所(suo)(suo)在(zai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)份(fen)(fen)，俗(su)(su)(su)稱屬相(xiang)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)。比如(ru)(ru)猴(hou)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)出(chu)(chu)(chu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，2004年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)他(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)(men)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)。在(zai)傳(chuan)統習(xi)(xi)俗(su)(su)(su)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)，本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)常(chang)(chang)常(chang)(chang)被認(ren)(ren)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)不(bu)(bu)吉(ji)(ji)(ji)利(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)份(fen)(fen)。“本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)犯(fan)太歲(sui)(sui)，太歲(sui)(sui)當頭(tou)坐，無喜(xi)必有(you)(you)(you)禍”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)民(min)(min)(min)(min)謠是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)關于(yu)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)不(bu)(bu)甚(shen)吉(ji)(ji)(ji)利(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)最好寫照(zhao)。故民(min)(min)(min)(min)間通(tong)(tong)常(chang)(chang)把(ba)(ba)(ba)“本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)”也(ye)(ye)(ye)叫(jiao)做(zuo)“檻兒年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)”，即度過本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)如(ru)(ru)同邁進一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)道(dao)檻兒一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)樣。每(mei)(mei)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)時(shi)(shi)(shi)，漢(han)族北(bei)方各(ge)地(di)，不(bu)(bu)論大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)小孩都(dou)(dou)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)買(mai)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)腰(yao)(yao)(yao)帶(dai)系(xi)(xi)(xi)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)，俗(su)(su)(su)稱“扎紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)”，小孩還(huan)(huan)(huan)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)穿(chuan)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)背心(xin)(xin)、紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)褲(ku)衩(cha)，認(ren)(ren)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)這(zhe)樣才(cai)能趨吉(ji)(ji)(ji)避兇(xiong)、消災(zai)免禍。這(zhe)種(zhong)習(xi)(xi)俗(su)(su)(su)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)今(jin)天(tian)(tian)仍在(zai)各(ge)地(di)流行(xing)(xing)，每(mei)(mei)逢春節，市場上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)處(chu)有(you)(you)(you)出(chu)(chu)(chu)售“吉(ji)(ji)(ji)祥(xiang)帶(dai)”“吉(ji)(ji)(ji)祥(xiang)結(jie)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)黃綢帶(dai)，本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)將(jiang)之系(xi)(xi)(xi)在(zai)腰(yao)(yao)(yao)間、手(shou)腕上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)，這(zhe)樣便(bian)可消解災(zai)禍、化(hua)兇(xiong)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)吉(ji)(ji)(ji)。 “本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)”這(zhe)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)說法(fa)早(zao)(zao)在(zai)西漢(han)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)有(you)(you)(you)了(le)(le)，起源(yuan)(yuan)于(yu)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)國的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)十(shi)(shi)二(er)(er)(er)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)和“崇(chong)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)”心(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)。在(zai)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)國古代(dai)，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)用(yong)甲乙丙丁、子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)丑寅卯等天(tian)(tian)干(gan)地(di)支(zhi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)組合來(lai)記(ji)(ji)(ji)住所(suo)(suo)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)份(fen)(fen)，為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)了(le)(le)便(bian)于(yu)記(ji)(ji)(ji)憶和推算(suan)，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)采(cai)用(yong)鼠、牛等十(shi)(shi)二(er)(er)(er)種(zhong)動物(wu)來(lai)與(yu)(yu)十(shi)(shi)二(er)(er)(er)地(di)支(zhi)相(xiang)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)應(ying)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)方法(fa)，每(mei)(mei)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)用(yong)其(qi)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)動物(wu)來(lai)作為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)這(zhe)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)屬相(xiang)。而(er)漢(han)民(min)(min)(min)(min)族的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)按照(zhao)十(shi)(shi)二(er)(er)(er)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)屬相(xiang)循環(huan)往復(fu)推出(chu)(chu)(chu)來(lai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，它與(yu)(yu)十(shi)(shi)二(er)(er)(er)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)緊密相(xiang)連。一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)出(chu)(chu)(chu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)那(nei)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)農歷(li)什么年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)，那(nei)么以(yi)(yi)后(hou)(hou)每(mei)(mei)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)這(zhe)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)屬相(xiang)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)便(bian)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)此(ci)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)，由于(yu)十(shi)(shi)二(er)(er)(er)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)循環(huan)往復(fu)，每(mei)(mei)過直(zhi)2年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)遇到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)自(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)，這(zhe)樣依次推出(chu)(chu)(chu)，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)量2歲(sui)(sui)、24歲(sui)(sui)、36歲(sui)(sui)、48歲(sui)(sui)、60歲(sui)(sui)……。我國許多民(min)(min)(min)(min)族都(dou)(dou)有(you)(you)(you)重視老(lao)(lao)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)60歲(sui)(sui)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)日(ri)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)習(xi)(xi)俗(su)(su)(su)，俗(su)(su)(su)稱“花甲”，花甲為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)第(di)6個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)干(gan)支(zhi)紀(ji)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)輪回，須好好慶祝，以(yi)(yi)此(ci)寄(ji)托人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)企求(qiu)長(chang)壽、健康、吉(ji)(ji)(ji)祥(xiang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愿望。 “本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)”禁忌，在(zai)民(min)(min)(min)(min)間有(you)(you)(you)著(zhu)廣泛的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)影響，在(zai)南北(bei)民(min)(min)(min)(min)俗(su)(su)(su)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)，都(dou)(dou)有(you)(you)(you)在(zai)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)掛(gua)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)避邪躲災(zai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)傳(chuan)統。因(yin)此(ci)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)每(mei)(mei)逢本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)色(se)(se)(se)(se)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)特(te)(te)別(bie)鐘愛。本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)色(se)(se)(se)(se)講究應(ying)該(gai)(gai)(gai)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)源(yuan)(yuan)于(yu)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)國漢(han)民(min)(min)(min)(min)族傳(chuan)統文(wen)化(hua)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)于(yu)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)色(se)(se)(se)(se)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)崇(chong)拜(bai)(bai)。紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)色(se)(se)(se)(se)辟(pi)(pi)(pi)邪，紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)色(se)(se)(se)(se)吉(ji)(ji)(ji)祥(xiang)，這(zhe)種(zhong)觀念(nian)(nian)早(zao)(zao)在(zai)原(yuan)始社(she)(she)會(hui)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)已經(jing)存在(zai)，紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)色(se)(se)(se)(se)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)太陽(yang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)顏(yan)(yan)色(se)(se)(se)(se)，是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)血的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)顏(yan)(yan)色(se)(se)(se)(se)，是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)火的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)顏(yan)(yan)色(se)(se)(se)(se)。隨(sui)(sui)著(zhu)時(shi)(shi)(shi)代(dai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)變(bian)遷，這(zhe)種(zhong)尚紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)思(si)想(xiang)卻(que)沒有(you)(you)(you)變(bian)，新(xin)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)貼紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)聯，漢(han)族的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)舊式婚(hun)禮中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)新(xin)婚(hun)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)嫁衣(yi)(yi)、紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)蓋(gai)頭(tou)、紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)蠟燭、新(xin)科的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)榜等等，不(bu)(bu)論何(he)(he)時(shi)(shi)(shi)何(he)(he)地(di)，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)都(dou)(dou)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)用(yong)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)色(se)(se)(se)(se)來(lai)增(zeng)添喜(xi)慶。漢(han)民(min)(min)(min)(min)族把(ba)(ba)(ba)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)色(se)(se)(se)(se)視為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)喜(xi)慶、成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)功(gong)(gong)、忠勇和正(zheng)義的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)象(xiang)(xiang)征，尤其(qi)認(ren)(ren)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)色(se)(se)(se)(se)有(you)(you)(you)驅邪護身的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)作用(yong)。因(yin)此(ci)在(zai)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)三十(shi)(shi)，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)便(bian)早(zao)(zao)早(zao)(zao)地(di)穿(chuan)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)色(se)(se)(se)(se)內(nei)(nei)衣(yi)(yi)，或(huo)系(xi)(xi)(xi)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)色(se)(se)(se)(se)腰(yao)(yao)(yao)帶(dai)，有(you)(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)隨(sui)(sui)身佩帶(dai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)飾(shi)(shi)物(wu)也(ye)(ye)(ye)用(yong)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)絲繩(sheng)系(xi)(xi)(xi)掛(gua)，來(lai)迎接自(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)。認(ren)(ren)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)這(zhe)樣才(cai)能趨吉(ji)(ji)(ji)避兇(xiong)，消災(zai)免禍。這(zhe)些(xie)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)辟(pi)(pi)(pi)邪的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)色(se)(se)(se)(se)什物(wu)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)什么常(chang)(chang)說的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)“本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)”。 人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)逢本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)還(huan)(huan)(huan)有(you)(you)(you)拜(bai)(bai)祭“本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)神(shen)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)風俗(su)(su)(su)，以(yi)(yi)求(qiu)延壽。本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)神(shen)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)說法(fa)來(lai)源(yuan)(yuan)于(yu)道(dao)教。道(dao)教吸收民(min)(min)(min)(min)間流行(xing)(xing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)“本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)”說法(fa)，提(ti)出(chu)(chu)(chu)“本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)星”、“本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)”“本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)日(ri)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)理(li)(li)(li)論。凡(fan)(fan)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)出(chu)(chu)(chu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)在(zai)六(liu)十(shi)(shi)甲子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)干(gan)支(zhi)之年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)，叫(jiao)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)。元(yuan)辰(chen)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)叫(jiao)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)。作為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)國土生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)土長(chang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)宗教，道(dao)教自(zi)(zi)(zi)然(ran)與(yu)(yu)天(tian)(tian)干(gan)、地(di)支(zhi)、十(shi)(shi)二(er)(er)(er)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)有(you)(you)(you)著(zhu)天(tian)(tian)然(ran)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)親和關系(xi)(xi)(xi)。對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)于(yu)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)神(shen)，有(you)(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)地(di)方叫(jiao)“本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)守命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)星君”，有(you)(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)叫(jiao)“本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)元(yuan)辰(chen)”，統稱為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)六(liu)十(shi)(shi)甲子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)神(shen)。以(yi)(yi)甲子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)首，六(liu)十(shi)(shi)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)內(nei)(nei)不(bu)(bu)同年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)份(fen)(fen)出(chu)(chu)(chu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)都(dou)(dou)能找到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)屬于(yu)自(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)神(shen)。如(ru)(ru)民(min)(min)(min)(min)族英雄岳飛(fei)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)于(yu)公元(yuan)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)零三年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)，夏歷(li)癸未(wei)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)，他(ta)(ta)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)星君為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)“癸未(wei)太歲(sui)(sui)魏仁二(er)(er)(er)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)將(jiang)軍”。按照(zhao)道(dao)教說法(fa)，修真(zhen)煉性(xing)須致(zhi)力于(yu)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)元(yuan)辰(chen)，本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)或(huo)平常(chang)(chang)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)份(fen)(fen)禮拜(bai)(bai)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)元(yuan)辰(chen)，會(hui)消災(zai)獲(huo)福(fu)，成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)習(xi)(xi)俗(su)(su)(su)流傳(chuan)至(zhi)今(jin)。 本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)從(cong)正(zheng)月初(chu)(chu)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)開始算(suan)。對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)于(yu)2006年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)過本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)狗狗們(men)(men)(men)來(lai)說，非(fei)常(chang)(chang)幸運的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，明(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)好的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)，好好把(ba)(ba)(ba)握(wo)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)切都(dou)(dou)會(hui)順利(li)，而(er)且會(hui)有(you)(you)(you)新(xin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)發展噢。不(bu)(bu)過雖(sui)然(ran)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)吉(ji)(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)，還(huan)(huan)(huan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)不(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)忘記(ji)(ji)(ji)了(le)(le)，不(bu)(bu)但要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)穿(chuan)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)內(nei)(nei)衣(yi)(yi)褲(ku)，方便(bian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)話(hua)還(huan)(huan)(huan)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)佩戴紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)繩(sheng)，可以(yi)(yi)根據個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)喜(xi)好、習(xi)(xi)慣(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)在(zai)手(shou)腕上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)、脖子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)、腰(yao)(yao)(yao)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)，紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)繩(sheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般不(bu)(bu)取，戴全(quan)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)直(zhi)至(zhi)新(xin)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)來(lai)，繩(sheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)可掛(gua)玉飾(shi)(shi)或(huo)金(jin)飾(shi)(shi)。雖(sui)然(ran)特(te)(te)別(bie)記(ji)(ji)(ji)住的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)紅(hong)(hong)(hong)(hong)色(se)(se)(se)(se)內(nei)(nei)衣(yi)(yi)、內(nei)(nei)褲(ku)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)定(ding)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)別(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)送，因(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)據說如(ru)(ru)果自(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)買(mai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)話(hua)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)會(hui)失(shi)去(qu)(qu)辟(pi)(pi)(pi)邪的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)功(gong)(gong)效。 中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)國的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)傳(chuan)統觀念(nian)(nian)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)在(zai)什么社(she)(she)會(hui)背景(jing)下(xia)(xia)形(xing)(xing)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，哪(na)些(xie)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)精華，我們(men)(men)(men)后(hou)(hou)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)應(ying)該(gai)(gai)(gai)去(qu)(qu)繼承和發揚光大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)，哪(na)些(xie)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)糟(zao)粕(po)，應(ying)該(gai)(gai)(gai)屏棄值得我們(men)(men)(men)后(hou)(hou)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)深(shen)思(si)。如(ru)(ru)果非(fei)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)說注意(yi)些(xie)什么的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)話(hua)，那(nei)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)抓緊時(shi)(shi)(shi)間，多做(zuo)些(xie)事(shi)，為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)社(she)(she)會(hui)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)自(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)。 邁過“本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)“坎(kan)兒” “本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)”是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)“坎(kan)兒”嗎？人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)發育(yu)(yu)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)理(li)(li)(li)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)心(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。以(yi)(yi)12年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)輪，從(cong)心(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)發育(yu)(yu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)角度上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)看(kan)，確實往往會(hui)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)“坎(kan)兒”，構成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)了(le)(le)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)危(wei)(wei)險(xian)期。 把(ba)(ba)(ba)陰歷(li)、陽(yang)歷(li)結(jie)合著(zhu)算(suan)，首先是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)十(shi)(shi)二(er)(er)(er)三歲(sui)(sui)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)那(nei)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)“本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)”。其(qi)心(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)危(wei)(wei)險(xian)，要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)么表現為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)早(zao)(zao)熟(shu)，失(shi)去(qu)(qu)應(ying)有(you)(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)童真(zhen)，導(dao)(dao)(dao)致(zhi)行(xing)(xing)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)越(yue)軌(gui)；要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)么心(xin)(xin)性(xing)從(cong)此(ci)滯留不(bu)(bu)進，總害怕(pa)進入(ru)“大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de) 社(she)(she)會(hui)”。學校(xiao)老(lao)(lao)師(shi)和家里(li)(li)父(fu)母，應(ying)引(yin)領(ling)孩子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)穿(chuan)越(yue)這(zhe)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)“心(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)窄門”。 然(ran)后(hou)(hou)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)二(er)(er)(er)十(shi)(shi)四五(wu)歲(sui)(sui)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)危(wei)(wei)險(xian)期。這(zhe)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)“本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)”里(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)危(wei)(wei)機(ji)會(hui)趨于(yu)兩(liang)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)極端，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)“憤青”，對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)社(she)(she)會(hui)，特(te)(te)別(bie)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)長(chang)輩(bei)，尤其(qi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)固(gu)有(you)(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)傳(chuan)統、規范，打心(xin)(xin)窩(wo)里(li)(li)噴溢出(chu)(chu)(chu)反叛的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)激情，特(te)(te)別(bie)容(rong)易(yi)受極端理(li)(li)(li)論蠱(gu)惑，追求(qiu)顛覆性(xing)、破壞性(xing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)快感；一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)“懦(nuo)(nuo)青”，自(zi)(zi)(zi)卑(bei)，懦(nuo)(nuo)弱，形(xing)(xing)不(bu)(bu)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)任何(he)(he)主見，特(te)(te)別(bie)地(di)害怕(pa)長(chang)輩(bei)、領(ling)導(dao)(dao)(dao)、權(quan)威、強人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，總是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)自(zi)(zi)(zi)覺形(xing)(xing)穢而(er)又(you)找不(bu)(bu)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)提(ti)升(sheng)自(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)途(tu)徑。在(zai)這(zhe)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)危(wei)(wei)險(xian)期里(li)(li)，學校(xiao)老(lao)(lao)師(shi)和家長(chang)所(suo)(suo)能起到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)輔導(dao)(dao)(dao)作用(yong)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般都(dou)(dou)比較有(you)(you)(you)限，因(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)當中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)橫亙著(zhu)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)條無可避免的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)“代(dai)溝”。這(zhe)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)心(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)危(wei)(wei)險(xian)期的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)平安度過，主要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)還(huan)(huan)(huan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)靠優秀、健康文(wen)化(hua)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)引(yin)領(ling)。優秀文(wen)化(hua)里(li)(li)包(bao)括經(jing)典，比如(ru)(ru)貝多芬的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)交響樂和魯迅的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)著(zhu)作，健康文(wen)化(hua)包(bao)括通(tong)(tong)俗(su)(su)(su)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)只流行(xing)(xing)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)時(shi)(shi)(shi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，比如(ru)(ru)某些(xie)校(xiao)園民(min)(min)(min)(min)謠和某些(xie)電視連續(xu)劇，凡(fan)(fan)能在(zai)文(wen)化(hua)接觸上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)自(zi)(zi)(zi)覺不(bu)(bu)自(zi)(zi)(zi)覺被這(zhe)些(xie)作品(pin)滋潤的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，都(dou)(dou)可穿(chuan)越(yue)心(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)駭浪，順利(li)地(di)駛(shi)向“而(er)立”之年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)。 三十(shi)(shi)六(liu)七歲(sui)(sui)與(yu)(yu)四十(shi)(shi)八(ba)九(jiu)歲(sui)(sui)這(zhe)兩(liang)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)“本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)”里(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)危(wei)(wei)機(ji)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般存在(zai)兩(liang)種(zhong)危(wei)(wei)險(xian)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)自(zi)(zi)(zi)我肯定(ding)過頭(tou)，覺得功(gong)(gong)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)名就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)，前(qian)途(tu)似錦，欲望膨(peng)脹到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)如(ru)(ru)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)崩(beng)裂(lie)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)氣球而(er)不(bu)(bu)自(zi)(zi)(zi)知，因(yin)而(er)導(dao)(dao)(dao)致(zhi)行(xing)(xing)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)冒(mao)進、冒(mao)險(xian)，甚(shen)至(zhi)會(hui)因(yin)藐視道(dao)德、法(fa)律而(er)犯(fan)錯誤(wu)乃至(zhi)觸犯(fan)法(fa)律；一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)自(zi)(zi)(zi)我否(fou)定(ding)過頭(tou)，覺得老(lao)(lao)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)不(bu)(bu)小而(er)仍成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)不(bu)(bu)了(le)(le)氣候，前(qian)景(jing)暗淡，對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)自(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)萬念(nian)(nian)俱灰，對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)別(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)尤其(qi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)同輩(bei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)功(gong)(gong)妒火中(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)燒，因(yin)而(er)導(dao)(dao)(dao)致(zhi)行(xing)(xing)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)怯懦(nuo)(nuo)、游移、錯亂，甚(shen)至(zhi)會(hui)釀成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)厭世(shi)輕生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)或(huo)“與(yu)(yu)汝(ru)偕(xie)亡”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)慘劇。 時(shi)(shi)(shi)下(xia)(xia)針對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)以(yi)(yi)權(quan)謀私的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)社(she)(she)會(hui)現象(xiang)(xiang)，有(you)(you)(you)所(suo)(suo)謂“59歲(sui)(sui)現象(xiang)(xiang)”一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)說。確實有(you)(you)(you)不(bu)(bu)算(suan)太少的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)公務員在(zai)面臨(lin)退休的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)前(qian)夕“加大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)貪污(wu)力度”，或(huo)竟從(cong)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)體清(qing)廉滑(hua)落(luo)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)貪污(wu)受賄的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)深(shen)淵。這(zhe)里(li)(li)不(bu)(bu)去(qu)(qu)探究其(qi)外在(zai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)社(she)(she)會(hui)因(yin)素，單就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)59、60這(zhe)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)“本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)失(shi)衡而(er)言，恐怕(pa)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)當事(shi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)沒能攬好“人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)定(ding)位”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)韁繩(sheng)。人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)意(yi)義究竟是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)什么？置身市場社(she)(she)會(hui)，面對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)富人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)群體，活(huo)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)第(di)五(wu)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)“本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，容(rong)易(yi)把(ba)(ba)(ba)自(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)放到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)商品(pin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)秤盤上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)，去(qu)(qu)用(yong)酒(jiu)氣財(cai)色(se)(se)(se)(se)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)砝碼，衡一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)衡自(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)“分量”，結(jie)果往往是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)覺得自(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)“虧大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)發了(le)(le)”，也(ye)(ye)(ye)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)“顧不(bu)(bu)得許多”，撈取“最后(hou)(hou)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)筐(kuang)魚(yu)”了(le)(le)！當然(ran)，在(zai)60歲(sui)(sui)這(zhe)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)“本(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)(ben)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)年(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)(nian)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)“坎(kan)兒”上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)會(hui)有(you)(you)(you)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)些(xie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)心(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)會(hui)冒(mao)出(chu)(chu)(chu)另(ling)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)病態(tai)，就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)再難以(yi)(yi)適應(ying)新(xin)事(shi)物(wu)，沉(chen)溺于(yu)懷舊，要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)么憤世(shi)嫉俗(su)(su)(su)，要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)么心(xin)(xin)灰意(yi)懶，這(zhe)心(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)危(wei)(wei)機(ji)又(you)轉化(hua)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)理(li)(li)(li)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)疑神(shen)疑鬼，總覺得自(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)“不(bu)(bu)行(xing)(xing)了(le)(le)”，仿佛人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)幕(mu)布(bu)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)該(gai)(gai)(gai)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)此(ci)落(luo)下(xia)(xia)。...
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