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中(zhong)國(guo)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)信宗教學(xue)(xue)說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo),認為一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)今(jin)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)能(neng)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起(qi),就是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)前生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)修行(xing)回(hui)來(lai)(lai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)果,相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)見(jian)好,同(tong)住難(nan),在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭(ting)(ting)(ting)中(zhong)難(nan)免(mian)會(hui)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)口舌爭(zheng)(zheng)吵(chao),有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)歸咎于(yu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong),亦有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)這(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)性(xing)(xing)問題,于(yu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)找玄(xuan)學(xue)(xue)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)化解,亦有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)找心(xin)理(li)(li)學(xue)(xue)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)咨詢。事(shi)實上,古人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)留下(xia)(xia)來(lai)(lai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)性(xing)(xing)格學(xue)(xue)說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)具有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)參考價值,同(tong)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)都有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)近(jin)似(si)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)性(xing)(xing)格,例(li)如(ru)屬龍(long)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)較自(zi)(zi)大(da),而(er)屬狗的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)賣(mai)臉(lian)給權貴(gui)(gui),二(er)(er)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起(qi)難(nan)免(mian)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)幾(ji)句爭(zheng)(zheng)吵(chao)。 今(jin)天我(wo)們(men)(men)借助生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)學(xue)(xue)說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)理(li)(li)論,試圖處(chu)理(li)(li)積(ji)壓(ya)下(xia)(xia)來(lai)(lai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭(ting)(ting)(ting)成(cheng)(cheng)員(yuan)(yuan)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)問題,首先(xian)我(wo)們(men)(men)先(xian)行(xing)了(le)(le)解生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)原(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)因。 (一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi))生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)原(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)因是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)甚(shen)么(me)? 簡(jian)單來(lai)(lai)說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo),「生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)」是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)指五(wu)行(xing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)協調,五(wu)行(xing)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi):金(jin)(jin)(jin)、水(shui)(shui)、木(mu)(mu)(mu)、火、土(tu)五(wu)種(zhong)元(yuan)素,在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)這(zhe)(zhe)五(wu)種(zhong)元(yuan)素中(zhong)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)亦有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong),相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)金(jin)(jin)(jin)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)水(shui)(shui)、水(shui)(shui)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)木(mu)(mu)(mu)、木(mu)(mu)(mu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)火、火生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)土(tu)、土(tu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)金(jin)(jin)(jin),同(tong)時(shi)(shi)(shi)亦有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong),相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)金(jin)(jin)(jin)克(ke)木(mu)(mu)(mu)、木(mu)(mu)(mu)克(ke)土(tu)、土(tu)克(ke)水(shui)(shui)、水(shui)(shui)克(ke)火、火克(ke)金(jin)(jin)(jin)。 生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)本質是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)五(wu)行(xing),每個(ge)(ge)(ge)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)都有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)自(zi)(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)五(wu)行(xing)元(yuan)素,為方(fang)便讀(du)者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)閱讀(du),筆(bi)者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)把(ba)十二(er)(er)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)五(wu)行(xing)做了(le)(le)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)簡(jian)單的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)表(biao)格: 讀(du)者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)們(men)(men)從(cong)上表(biao)中(zhong)可(ke)以(yi)知道自(zi)(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)五(wu)行(xing)中(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)哪一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)類(lei),之后(hou)(hou),我(wo)們(men)(men)從(cong)五(wu)行(xing)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)克(ke)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(金(jin)(jin)(jin)克(ke)木(mu)(mu)(mu)、木(mu)(mu)(mu)克(ke)土(tu)、土(tu)克(ke)水(shui)(shui)、水(shui)(shui)克(ke)火、火克(ke)金(jin)(jin)(jin)),就明白自(zi)(zi)己(ji)克(ke)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)甚(shen)么(me)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao),又或(huo)哪一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)克(ke)自(zi)(zi)己(ji)。 (二(er)(er))陽(yang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)和(he)(he)陰(yin)(yin)(yin)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)甚(shen)么(me)? 古時(shi)(shi)(shi)候(hou)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)套學(xue)(xue)說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo),是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)鼠(shu)(shu)馬(ma)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)、牛(niu)羊相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)、蛇(she)(she)(she)豬(zhu)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)、兔(tu)(tu)雞(ji)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)、虎猴(hou)(hou)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong),還有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)狗龍(long)也(ye)(ye)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)。舉例(li)來(lai)(lai)說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo),鼠(shu)(shu)(陽(yang)水(shui)(shui))馬(ma)(陽(yang)火),這(zhe)(zhe)屬五(wu)行(xing)「陽(yang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)陽(yang)」;又例(li)如(ru)牛(niu)(陰(yin)(yin)(yin)土(tu))羊(陰(yin)(yin)(yin)土(tu)),屬五(wu)行(xing)「陰(yin)(yin)(yin)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)陰(yin)(yin)(yin)」。 在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)十二(er)(er)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)中(zhong),上述六組生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)嚴重(zhong)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)。玄(xuan)學(xue)(xue)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)談的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)「陽(yang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)」,就是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)童(tong)年(nian)時(shi)(shi)(shi)你(ni)爭(zheng)(zheng)我(wo)奪,長大(da)后(hou)(hou)兄弟姐妹(mei)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)和(he)(he),嚴重(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)成(cheng)(cheng)了(le)(le)敵對(dui),問題比(bi)較嚴重(zhong);而(er)「陰(yin)(yin)(yin)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)」是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)兄弟姐妹(mei)暗(an)地(di)里不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)服氣,以(yi)致大(da)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)富貴(gui)(gui)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)同(tong)享。 (三)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭(ting)(ting)(ting)中(zhong)甚(shen)么(me)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)自(zi)(zi)己(ji)? 「陽(yang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)」和(he)(he)「陰(yin)(yin)(yin)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)」都會(hui)影響童(tong)年(nian)時(shi)(shi)(shi)期(qi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)格的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)培(pei)養(yang),近(jin)十年(nian)來(lai)(lai)筆(bi)者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)被邀到不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)同(tong)會(hui)所主講兒(er)童(tong)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)格心(xin)理(li)(li)學(xue)(xue),其中(zhong)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)得不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)提的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de),是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)這(zhe)(zhe)個(ge)(ge)(ge)話題。 (四)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭(ting)(ting)(ting)成(cheng)(cheng)員(yuan)(yuan)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)嚴重(zhong)程(cheng)度(du) 中(zhong)國(guo)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)思(si)想比(bi)較傳統,家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)老,如(ru)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)寶(bao),許多女性(xing)(xing)結婚后(hou)(hou)都樂意跟(gen)男方(fang)父(fu)(fu)母(mu)(mu)(mu)(mu)同(tong)住,一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)面(mian)盡孝道,另一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)面(mian)又可(ke)讓老人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)照顧自(zi)(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)孩(hai)子。有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)些經濟條件(jian)(jian)富裕的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭(ting)(ting)(ting)還聘請褓姆。現在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)問題就來(lai)(lai)了(le)(le),在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭(ting)(ting)(ting)中(zhong),很(hen)(hen)(hen)容易(yi)出現家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭(ting)(ting)(ting)成(cheng)(cheng)員(yuan)(yuan)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong),我(wo)們(men)(men)如(ru)何處(chu)理(li)(li)?筆(bi)者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)熊(xiong)神(shen)進認為首先(xian)劃分家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)關(guan)系,然(ran)后(hou)(hou)按相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)程(cheng)度(du)來(lai)(lai)配合風水(shui)(shui)格局,效果會(hui)更佳。下(xia)(xia)表(biao)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)六親的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)之輕(qing)重(zhong)程(cheng)度(du)表(biao): (五(wu))家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭(ting)(ting)(ting)成(cheng)(cheng)員(yuan)(yuan)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)化解方(fang)法 所謂生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong),是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)代表(biao)二(er)(er)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)個(ge)(ge)(ge)性(xing)(xing)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)合、容易(yi)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)突,因此熊(xiong)神(shen)進建(jian)議,在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)分配住房(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)時(shi)(shi)(shi)候(hou)盡可(ke)能(neng)把(ba)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)成(cheng)(cheng)員(yuan)(yuan)分隔開來(lai)(lai),不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)同(tong)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)房(fang)間睡,這(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)化解的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)其中(zhong)方(fang)法。如(ru)果條件(jian)(jian)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)許可(ke),我(wo)們(men)(men)亦可(ke)以(yi)考慮在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)房(fang)屋(wu)(wu)中(zhong)擺(bai)放一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)些吉祥物來(lai)(lai)化解: 1. 家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭(ting)(ting)(ting)中(zhong)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)鼠(shu)(shu)、豬(zhu)、蛇(she)(she)(she)、馬(ma)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)成(cheng)(cheng)員(yuan)(yuan)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起(qi): 這(zhe)(zhe)幾(ji)個(ge)(ge)(ge)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)原(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)因是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)馬(ma)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)眼(yan)光寬闊,看不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)過鼠(shu)(shu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)畏首畏尾,而(er)蛇(she)(she)(she)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)機智遇上反應慢的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)豬(zhu)豬(zhu)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)定沒有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)這(zhe)(zhe)份耐性(xing)(xing),最糟還是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)馬(ma)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)火爆(bao)脾氣令(ling)(ling)豬(zhu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)接受,因此上述人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)士(shi)住在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起(qi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)時(shi)(shi)(shi)候(hou)當然(ran)會(hui)爭(zheng)(zheng)吵(chao)多,為了(le)(le)緩(huan)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)這(zhe)(zhe)緊張關(guan)系,建(jian)議在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)中(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)東(dong)方(fang)、東(dong)南方(fang)擺(bai)放四枝富貴(gui)(gui)竹,而(er)鼠(shu)(shu)、豬(zhu)、蛇(she)(she)(she)、馬(ma)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren),最宜身(shen)上佩(pei)帶兔(tu)(tu)型的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)飾(shi)物。 2. 家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭(ting)(ting)(ting)中(zhong)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)虎、兔(tu)(tu)、猴(hou)(hou)和(he)(he)雞(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)成(cheng)(cheng)員(yuan)(yuan)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起(qi): 虎的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)稱王(wang)稱霸當然(ran)令(ling)(ling)花(hua)果山美猴(hou)(hou)王(wang)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)滿(man),兩個(ge)(ge)(ge)自(zi)(zi)大(da)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)住在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起(qi)只(zhi)(zhi)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)雞(ji)犬不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)寧,與此同(tong)時(shi)(shi)(shi),雞(ji)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)喋喋不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)休更令(ling)(ling)六根(gen)清靜的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)兔(tu)(tu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)厭惡,幾(ji)位(wei)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)同(tong)住一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)屋(wu)(wu)難(nan)免(mian)起(qi)怨懟,建(jian)議大(da)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)屋(wu)(wu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)北面(mian)放一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)杯水(shui)(shui),同(tong)時(shi)(shi)(shi)杯內放六個(ge)(ge)(ge)銅(tong)錢。 3. 家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭(ting)(ting)(ting)中(zhong)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)牛(niu)、羊、狗和(he)(he)龍(long)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)成(cheng)(cheng)員(yuan)(yuan)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起(qi): 牛(niu)和(he)(he)羊都是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)角(jiao),在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)十二(er)(er)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)只(zhi)(zhi)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)牛(niu)、羊的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)角(jiao)才(cai)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)真實存在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(傳說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)中(zhong)龍(long)也(ye)(ye)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)角(jiao)),很(hen)(hen)(hen)奇怪(guai)牛(niu)跟(gen)羊二(er)(er)者(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)都有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)角(jiao),但不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)廝殺(sha),原(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)因是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)它們(men)(men)表(biao)面(mian)很(hen)(hen)(hen)講情(qing)義(yi),暗(an)地(di)里就搞(gao)小(xiao)動(dong)作(zuo),屬龍(long)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)自(zi)(zi)大(da),而(er)屬狗的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)賣(mai)臉(lian)給權貴(gui)(gui),二(er)(er)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起(qi)難(nan)免(mian)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)爭(zheng)(zheng)吵(chao)。為了(le)(le)令(ling)(ling)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭(ting)(ting)(ting)和(he)(he)睦,建(jian)議在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)中(zhong)西(xi)方(fang)擺(bai)放一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)魚尾銅(tong)鐘,每小(xiao)時(shi)(shi)(shi)報時(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)次(ci),一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)天不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)停跳(tiao)動(dong),在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)暗(an)地(di)里化煞。 家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)肖(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)(xiao)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)現象(xiang)很(hen)(hen)(hen)常(chang)見(jian),大(da)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)多點體諒,就可(ke)緩(huan)和(he)(he)緊張關(guan)系。例(li)如(ru)當父(fu)(fu)母(mu)(mu)(mu)(mu)責備你(ni),你(ni)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)把(ba)責備想成(cheng)(cheng)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)父(fu)(fu)母(mu)(mu)(mu)(mu)對(dui)自(zi)(zi)己(ji)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)滿(man),而(er)要(yao)明白這(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)父(fu)(fu)母(mu)(mu)(mu)(mu)擔心(xin)自(zi)(zi)己(ji)、愛子心(xin)切的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)表(biao)現。只(zhi)(zhi)要(yao)多點包容,即使(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)三幾(ji)句爭(zheng)(zheng)吵(chao),也(ye)(ye)稱不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)上相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)沖(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)(chong)。...
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