不(bu)是，可以是動物、鬼、神、阿修羅、地(di)域眾生。人(ren)(ren)(ren)轉(zhuan)(zhuan)人(ren)(ren)(ren)是很難(nan)的，人(ren)(ren)(ren)持5戒（殺、盜、淫、酒、妄語）才能轉(zhuan)(zhuan)人(ren)(ren)(ren)，轉(zhuan)(zhuan)世成植物好像宣化上人(ren)(ren)(ren)講過(guo)，不(bu)是太清楚。《楞嚴(yan)經》里講過(guo)有(you)(you)修行的人(ren)(ren)(ren)觀察到人(ren)(ren)(ren)恒轉(zhuan)(zhuan)世為人(ren)(ren)(ren)，有(you)(you)修行的人(ren)(ren)(ren)觀察到人(ren)(ren)(ren)不(bu)能轉(zhuan)(zhuan)世為人(ren)(ren)(ren)，這兩(liang)種(zhong)情況在(zai)下(xia)沒有(you)(you)修證，不(bu)懂不(bu)亂說(shuo)...
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“十(shi)(shi)年(nian)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)得(de)(de)(de)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)船渡，百年(nian)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)得(de)(de)(de)共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)枕眠”。會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)，除(chu)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)需要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)份(fen)。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)世(shi)(shi)(shi)間(jian)(jian)尋尋覓覓，怎么會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)遇到(dao)他(ta)(ta)？是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)否(fou)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)冥(ming)冥(ming)之(zhi)(zhi)中(zhong)，姻(yin)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)天(tian)(tian)(tian)已(yi)(yi)注定(ding)？不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)僅眾(zhong)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)迷(mi)惑，連(lian)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)佛(fo)(fo)人(ren)(ren)(ren)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)樣(yang)迷(mi)惑。 然(ran)(ran)(ran)(ran)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)什么在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)結(jie)(jie)(jie)婚之(zhi)(zhi)后(hou)，有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)甜蜜(mi)(mi)幸(xing)福，有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)“不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)冤家(jia)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)聚(ju)(ju)頭”，有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)卻(que)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)依(yi)(yi)信仰，共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)呢(ni)？今(jin)天(tian)(tian)(tian)我(wo)們(men)首先(xian)(xian)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)討(tao)(tao)論(lun)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)類(lei)(lei)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，并(bing)將(jiang)各(ge)(ge)類(lei)(lei)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)特(te)征(zheng)加(jia)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)說明(ming)。了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)解了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)類(lei)(lei)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，并(bing)非(fei)消極(ji)(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)認(ren)知(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)、宿(su)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)，就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)認(ren)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)只(zhi)好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)悲(bei)(bei)哀命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)運(yun)過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)，相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)反的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)面(mian)(mian)(mian)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)問(wen)題(ti)(ti)時(shi)(shi)(shi)，積(ji)極(ji)(ji)(ji)尋求(qiu)解決(jue)(jue)之(zhi)(zhi)道(dao)(dao)(dao)，好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)互(hu)(hu)(hu)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)善(shan)(shan)待(dai)。爭(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)爭(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)吵(chao)(chao)吵(chao)(chao)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)難免，如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)保(bao)(bao)持(chi)理(li)(li)性(xing)(xing)(xing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)態(tai)(tai)度(du)(du)，有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)誠意(yi)(yi)(yi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)互(hu)(hu)(hu)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)溝通，互(hu)(hu)(hu)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)體(ti)(ti)(ti)諒，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)記(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)恨(hen)(hen)(hen)（從(cong)(cong)某(mou)(mou)(mou)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)角度(du)(du)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)言(yan)，因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)問(wen)題(ti)(ti)，才(cai)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)記(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)恨(hen)(hen)(hen)別(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)，如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)習(xi)(xi)(xi)慈悲(bei)(bei)，別(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)誤會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)諷刺就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)視(shi)作(zuo)“虛妄”，就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)記(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)恨(hen)(hen)(hen)），問(wen)題(ti)(ti)總(zong)(zong)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)解決(jue)(jue)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)時(shi)(shi)(shi)候。就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)怕“主觀認(ren)定(ding)”、“無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)中(zhong)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)”，無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)法(fa)溝通，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)講道(dao)(dao)(dao)理(li)(li)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)認(ren)錯(cuo)(cuo)(cuo)(cuo)道(dao)(dao)(dao)歉(qian)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)味指(zhi)責(ze)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，問(wen)題(ti)(ti)大(da)(da)概也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)永遠(yuan)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)解。 夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)類(lei)(lei)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)粗分(fen)(fen)(fen)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)類(lei)(lei)： 一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)、親蜜(mi)(mi)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：兩(liang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)處(chu)(chu)雖(sui)(sui)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)原因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)都(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)非(fei)常(chang)親蜜(mi)(mi)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)易(yi)(yi)分(fen)(fen)(fen)離(li)(li)(li)。： 二(er)、怨(yuan)(yuan)偶(ou)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：兩(liang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)處(chu)(chu)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)者(zhe)(zhe)冷(leng)淡，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)者(zhe)(zhe)爭(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)吵(chao)(chao)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)者(zhe)(zhe)傷(shang)害(hai)，甚(shen)至(zhi)殺(sha)(sha)害(hai)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)。 三(san)、鳥(niao)(niao)巢(chao)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：兩(liang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)簡(jian)單(dan)但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)穩(wen)定(ding)，隨時(shi)(shi)(shi)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)分(fen)(fen)(fen)離(li)(li)(li)。 四、平(ping)順(shun)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：兩(liang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)除(chu)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)感(gan)(gan)(gan)(gan)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)，通常(chang)還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)其(qi)他(ta)(ta)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)素的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)保(bao)(bao)障，如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)業(ye)(ye)(ye)、家(jia)族(zu)、生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)(huo)背景等(deng)，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)算(suan)平(ping)順(shun)。 五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)、共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：兩(liang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)除(chu)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)感(gan)(gan)(gan)(gan)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)，還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)宗教(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)、修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)上(shang)(shang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)原因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)。 一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)、親蜜(mi)(mi)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing) （一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)）男(nan)歡(huan)女(nv)(nv)(nv)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：男(nan)女(nv)(nv)(nv)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)深(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)陷情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)欲(yu)，并(bing)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)重(zhong)于(yu)(yu)淫(yin)欲(yu)，雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)認(ren)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)表現(xian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)，惟有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)肉體(ti)(ti)(ti)親蜜(mi)(mi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)接觸。現(xian)代人(ren)(ren)(ren)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)觀念愈(yu)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)愈(yu)開放，只(zhi)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)我(wo)喜歡(huan)，有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)何(he)(he)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)況下(xia)(xia)(xia)(xia)，易(yi)(yi)發(fa)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)“淫(yin)欲(yu)”為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)基(ji)(ji)(ji)礎(chu)(chu)(chu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)。 （二(er)）相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)敬如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)賓型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)態(tai)(tai)度(du)(du)穩(wen)重(zhong)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)比較(jiao)和(he)諧。由(you)(you)于(yu)(yu)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)個(ge)(ge)性(xing)(xing)(xing)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)熟(shu)穩(wen)重(zhong)，能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)考量，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)中(zhong)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)處(chu)(chu)時(shi)(shi)(shi)較(jiao)少(shao)(shao)(shao)爭(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)執，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)“成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)熟(shu)”為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)基(ji)(ji)(ji)礎(chu)(chu)(chu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)。 （三(san)）甜似(si)(si)膠漆型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)甜蜜(mi)(mi)如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)膠似(si)(si)漆，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)個(ge)(ge)性(xing)(xing)(xing)上(shang)(shang)較(jiao)依(yi)(yi)賴，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)欠(qian)缺(que)獨立(li)，感(gan)(gan)(gan)(gan)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)互(hu)(hu)(hu)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)依(yi)(yi)賴，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)“互(hu)(hu)(hu)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)依(yi)(yi)賴”為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)基(ji)(ji)(ji)礎(chu)(chu)(chu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)。 （四）如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)父(fu)如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)女(nv)(nv)(nv)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：男(nan)女(nv)(nv)(nv)年(nian)齡有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)較(jiao)大(da)(da)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)差距，男(nan)較(jiao)年(nian)長(chang)，可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)靠(kao)穩(wen)重(zhong)，女(nv)(nv)(nv)較(jiao)年(nian)輕，依(yi)(yi)賴撒嬌，相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)處(chu)(chu)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)父(fu)女(nv)(nv)(nv)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)偎相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)依(yi)(yi)，如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)、六十(shi)(shi)歲(sui)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)先(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)和(he)二(er)、三(san)十(shi)(shi)歲(sui)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)太(tai)(tai)(tai)太(tai)(tai)(tai)，其(qi)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)處(chu)(chu)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)頗為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)愉快，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)“照(zhao)顧”為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)基(ji)(ji)(ji)礎(chu)(chu)(chu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)。 （五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)）比翼雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)飛(fei)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)個(ge)(ge)性(xing)(xing)(xing)和(he)理(li)(li)想(xiang)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)，彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)互(hu)(hu)(hu)配(pei)合，有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)比翼雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)飛(fei)，相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)知(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)惜(xi)(xi)，同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)理(li)(li)想(xiang)目(mu)標(biao)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)努力(li)(li)。雖(sui)(sui)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)挫折(zhe)(zhe)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)協力(li)(li)，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)“理(li)(li)想(xiang)”為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)基(ji)(ji)(ji)礎(chu)(chu)(chu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)。 （六）惺惺相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)惜(xi)(xi)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：男(nan)女(nv)(nv)(nv)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)樣(yang)落魄，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)志不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)展其(qi)才(cai)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)都(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)出(chu)身(shen)(shen)貧(pin)窮，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)互(hu)(hu)(hu)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)體(ti)(ti)(ti)諒，惺惺相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)惜(xi)(xi)，彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)攜手(shou)，共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)努力(li)(li)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)“互(hu)(hu)(hu)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)體(ti)(ti)(ti)諒”為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)基(ji)(ji)(ji)礎(chu)(chu)(chu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)。 （七）情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)深(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)似(si)(si)海(hai)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)曾是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)年(nian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)朋(peng)友(you)(you)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)著深(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)，經過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)歲(sui)月的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)歷(li)煉，彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)互(hu)(hu)(hu)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)珍(zhen)惜(xi)(xi)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)份(fen)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)誼，于(yu)(yu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)由(you)(you)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)進(jin)(jin)入(ru)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)深(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)厚的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)“友(you)(you)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)”基(ji)(ji)(ji)礎(chu)(chu)(chu)上(shang)(shang)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)份(fen)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)耐得(de)(de)(de)起(qi)(qi)歲(sui)月的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)考驗。 親蜜(mi)(mi)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)去(qu)(qu)曾結(jie)(jie)(jie)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)善(shan)(shan)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)（無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)論(lun)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)去(qu)(qu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)今(jin)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)），留(liu)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)感(gan)(gan)(gan)(gan)覺，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)管(guan)(guan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)恩(en)(en)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)、愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)、親情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)、友(you)(you)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)意(yi)(yi)(yi)識(shi)或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)潛意(yi)(yi)(yi)識(shi)里留(liu)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)記(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)憶。從(cong)(cong)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)個(ge)(ge)角度(du)(du)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)言(yan)，居(ju)(ju)士學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)佛(fo)(fo)，仍(reng)應(ying)善(shan)(shan)待(dai)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)付出(chu)，關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，留(liu)下(xia)(xia)(xia)(xia)好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)印(yin)(yin)象，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)管(guan)(guan)今(jin)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)世(shi)(shi)(shi)，至(zhi)少(shao)(shao)(shao)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)處(chu)(chu)或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)再(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)見(jian)面(mian)(mian)(mian)時(shi)(shi)(shi)，對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)回(hui)報(bao)(bao)(bao)善(shan)(shan)待(dai)，互(hu)(hu)(hu)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)都(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)態(tai)(tai)度(du)(du)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)處(chu)(chu)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)“善(shan)(shan)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)循環(huan)”。 不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)用羨慕他(ta)(ta)人(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)切只(zhi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)個(ge)(ge)“好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)夢”！ 二(er)、怨(yuan)(yuan)偶(ou)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing) （一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)）仇(chou)(chou)(chou)深(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)似(si)(si)海(hai)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)中(zhong)間(jian)(jian)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)極(ji)(ji)(ji)大(da)(da)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)仇(chou)(chou)(chou)恨(hen)(hen)(hen)。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)互(hu)(hu)(hu)動(dong)(dong)(dong)中(zhong)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)滿、仇(chou)(chou)(chou)恨(hen)(hen)(hen)、嗔怒(nu)慢慢產(chan)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)，直到(dao)“仇(chou)(chou)(chou)人(ren)(ren)(ren)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)見(jian)，分(fen)(fen)(fen)外(wai)(wai)(wai)眼紅”，有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)結(jie)(jie)(jie)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)十(shi)(shi)幾輩子(zi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)仇(chou)(chou)(chou)恨(hen)(hen)(hen)。或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)去(qu)(qu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)中(zhong)真(zhen)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)仇(chou)(chou)(chou)人(ren)(ren)(ren)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)說不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)定(ding)，印(yin)(yin)象深(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)刻，因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)某(mou)(mou)(mou)些(xie)業(ye)(ye)(ye)力(li)(li)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)今(jin)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)將(jiang)兩(liang)位(wei)(wei)結(jie)(jie)(jie)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)甜蜜(mi)(mi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)，過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)去(qu)(qu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)怨(yuan)(yuan)仇(chou)(chou)(chou)便(bian)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)潛意(yi)(yi)(yi)識(shi)浮(fu)現(xian)出(chu)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)。 （二(er)）討(tao)(tao)債型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)極(ji)(ji)(ji)度(du)(du)耗用另(ling)(ling)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)福報(bao)(bao)(bao)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)點也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)覺得(de)(de)(de)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)惜(xi)(xi)。常(chang)見(jian)先(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)努力(li)(li)工作(zuo)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)太(tai)(tai)(tai)太(tai)(tai)(tai)卻(que)大(da)(da)筆揮霍(huo)；或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)太(tai)(tai)(tai)太(tai)(tai)(tai)節(jie)儉，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)先(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)賭得(de)(de)(de)傾家(jia)蕩產(chan)；或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)者(zhe)(zhe)太(tai)(tai)(tai)太(tai)(tai)(tai)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)先(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)照(zhao)顧無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)微不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)盡(jin)，卻(que)任(ren)憑(ping)閑賦在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)家(jia)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)先(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)辱(ru)(ru)罵淩虐，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)敢吭(hang)聲。或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)去(qu)(qu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)樣(yang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)景象依(yi)(yi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)角色(se)互(hu)(hu)(hu)換，如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)今(jin)時(shi)(shi)(shi)空一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)變(bian)，欠(qian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)總(zong)(zong)該還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)回(hui)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)。 （三(san)）討(tao)(tao)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)謀害(hai)另(ling)(ling)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)極(ji)(ji)(ji)大(da)(da)冤仇(chou)(chou)(chou)，可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)只(zhi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)小事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)已(yi)(yi)，便(bian)錯(cuo)(cuo)(cuo)(cuo)手(shou)將(jiang)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)致(zhi)于(yu)(yu)死(si)(si)(si)地(di)。夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)之(zhi)(zhi)間(jian)(jian)或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)累積(ji)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)許(xu)(xu)(xu)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)委曲和(he)怨(yuan)(yuan)恨(hen)(hen)(hen)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)致(zhi)于(yu)(yu)殺(sha)(sha)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)殺(sha)(sha)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)去(qu)(qu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)殺(sha)(sha)害(hai)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)（不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)定(ding)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)貓(mao)狗的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)動(dong)(dong)(dong)物）的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)果(guo)(guo)(guo)，今(jin)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)，很(hen)(hen)(hen)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)便(bian)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)發(fa)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)“討(tao)(tao)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)況，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)意(yi)(yi)(yi)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)意(yi)(yi)(yi)之(zhi)(zhi)間(jian)(jian)，果(guo)(guo)(guo)報(bao)(bao)(bao)便(bian)發(fa)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)。如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)曾經殺(sha)(sha)害(hai)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)算(suan)天(tian)(tian)(tian)涯海(hai)角，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)碰面(mian)(mian)(mian)，果(guo)(guo)(guo)報(bao)(bao)(bao)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)跑不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)掉的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。 （四）爭(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)吵(chao)(chao)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：常(chang)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)小問(wen)題(ti)(ti)大(da)(da)吵(chao)(chao)特(te)吵(chao)(chao)，吵(chao)(chao)得(de)(de)(de)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)開交(jiao)。或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)觀點不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)致(zhi)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)習(xi)(xi)(xi)慣不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)本(ben)(ben)身(shen)(shen)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)爭(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)吵(chao)(chao)（甚(shen)至(zhi)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)人(ren)(ren)(ren)視(shi)爭(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)吵(chao)(chao)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)運(yun)動(dong)(dong)(dong)），反正三(san)天(tian)(tian)(tian)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)小吵(chao)(chao)，五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)天(tian)(tian)(tian)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)大(da)(da)吵(chao)(chao)已(yi)(yi)司(si)(si)空見(jian)慣。打(da)開社(she)(she)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)版(ban)新聞，例(li)子(zi)處(chu)(chu)處(chu)(chu)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)見(jian)，因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)爭(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)吵(chao)(chao)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)歐打(da)，潑硫酸，離(li)(li)(li)家(jia)，跳河跳樓，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)現(xian)代社(she)(she)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)問(wen)題(ti)(ti)。如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)爭(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)吵(chao)(chao)，必(bi)須以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)慈悲(bei)(bei)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)待(dai)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，爭(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)吵(chao)(chao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)氣(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)氛才(cai)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)降(jiang)低(di)。如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)視(shi)爭(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)吵(chao)(chao)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)理(li)(li)所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)當(dang)(dang)然(ran)(ran)(ran)(ran)，將(jiang)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)破壞生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)和(he)諧（怒(nu)火三(san)丈(zhang)，人(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)緒狀態(tai)(tai)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)難保(bao)(bao)平(ping)靜）。 （五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)）遺(yi)(yi)棄(qi)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)管(guan)(guan)另(ling)(ling)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)死(si)(si)(si)活(huo)(huo)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)遺(yi)(yi)棄(qi)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)。如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)先(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)遺(yi)(yi)棄(qi)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)兒遠(yuan)走他(ta)(ta)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)者(zhe)(zhe)男(nan)性(xing)(xing)(xing)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)新歡(huan)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)遺(yi)(yi)棄(qi)舊(jiu)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)。這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)遺(yi)(yi)棄(qi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)造(zao)(zao)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)另(ling)(ling)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)深(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)深(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)記(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)恨(hen)(hen)(hen)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)恨(hen)(hen)(hen)意(yi)(yi)(yi)，將(jiang)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)未(wei)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)時(shi)(shi)(shi)空中(zhong)，會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)產(chan)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)“報(bao)(bao)(bao)復(fu)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)（尤(you)其(qi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)謂“報(bao)(bao)(bao)復(fu)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，尤(you)其(qi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)謂“惡(e)意(yi)(yi)(yi)遺(yi)(yi)棄(qi)”）。遺(yi)(yi)棄(qi)他(ta)(ta)人(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，本(ben)(ben)身(shen)(shen)將(jiang)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)留(liu)下(xia)(xia)(xia)(xia)“虧(kui)欠(qian)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)記(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)憶，對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)于(yu)(yu)被(bei)報(bao)(bao)(bao)復(fu)，無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)形中(zhong)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)視(shi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)該如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)只(zhi)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)奈(nai)。如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)遺(yi)(yi)棄(qi)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)女(nv)(nv)(nv)，出(chu)家(jia)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)中(zhong)止了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)本(ben)(ben)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)，即(ji)使(shi)今(jin)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)必(bi)須再(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)輪(lun)(lun)回(hui)，必(bi)須再(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)結(jie)(jie)(jie)婚，以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)前緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)。等(deng)宿(su)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)全(quan)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)，才(cai)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)再(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)輪(lun)(lun)回(hui)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)“因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)果(guo)(guo)(guo)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)昧”之(zhi)(zhi)理(li)(li)。 （六）相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)敬如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)冰型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)態(tai)(tai)度(du)(du)冰冷(leng)，已(yi)(yi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)再(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)著想(xiang)。可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)身(shen)(shen)處(chu)(chu)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)屋檐，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)貌不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)合，神(shen)亦(yi)離(li)(li)(li)，根本(ben)(ben)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)各(ge)(ge)過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)各(ge)(ge)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)(huo)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)互(hu)(hu)(hu)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)問(wen)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)。通常(chang)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)份(fen)（或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)說善(shan)(shan)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)）快盡(jin)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)沒(mei)(mei)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)任(ren)何(he)(he)感(gan)(gan)(gan)(gan)覺。“名存實亡”，剩下(xia)(xia)(xia)(xia)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)只(zhi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)婚姻(yin)契約(yue)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名份(fen)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)已(yi)(yi)。如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)時(shi)(shi)(shi)各(ge)(ge)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)各(ge)(ge)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)象，表示舊(jiu)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)已(yi)(yi)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)，開始另(ling)(ling)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)段因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)（即(ji)使(shi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)離(li)(li)(li)婚，舊(jiu)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)等(deng)于(yu)(yu)已(yi)(yi)結(jie)(jie)(jie)束(shu)(shu)）。 （七）不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)服(fu)(fu)輸(shu)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)比較(jiao)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)歷(li)高(gao)低(di)，賺錢多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)寡，家(jia)世(shi)(shi)(shi)貴賤，地(di)位(wei)(wei)高(gao)下(xia)(xia)(xia)(xia)，能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)強弱，彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)互(hu)(hu)(hu)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)服(fu)(fu)輸(shu)（在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)上(shang)(shang)，還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)互(hu)(hu)(hu)比境界(jie)(jie)和(he)神(shen)通）。好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)勝心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)作(zuo)用下(xia)(xia)(xia)(xia)，生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)(huo)如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)戰(zhan)爭(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)，為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)面(mian)(mian)(mian)子(zi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)點都(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)服(fu)(fu)輸(shu)。有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)些(xie)天(tian)(tian)(tian)天(tian)(tian)(tian)界(jie)(jie)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)天(tian)(tian)(tian)人(ren)(ren)(ren)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)習(xi)(xi)(xi)性(xing)(xing)(xing)，故(gu)轉(zhuan)入(ru)人(ren)(ren)(ren)間(jian)(jian)時(shi)(shi)(shi)，各(ge)(ge)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)面(mian)(mian)(mian)表現(xian)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)錯(cuo)(cuo)(cuo)(cuo)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)“不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)服(fu)(fu)輸(shu)”沿(yan)襲了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)前的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)習(xi)(xi)(xi)性(xing)(xing)(xing)。 （八(ba)(ba)）脾氣(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)古(gu)(gu)(gu)怪(guai)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)脾氣(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)古(gu)(gu)(gu)怪(guai)，難以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)處(chu)(chu)，另(ling)(ling)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)只(zhi)好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)忍氣(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)吞(tun)聲。例(li)如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)先(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)個(ge)(ge)性(xing)(xing)(xing)孤僻(pi)，憤世(shi)(shi)(shi)疾俗，自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)比不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)世(shi)(shi)(shi)出(chu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)英(ying)雄(xiong)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)高(gao)騖遠(yuan)，終(zhong)(zhong)究一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)，身(shen)(shen)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)太(tai)(tai)(tai)太(tai)(tai)(tai)只(zhi)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)奈(nai)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)言(yan)；或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)者(zhe)(zhe)太(tai)(tai)(tai)太(tai)(tai)(tai)深(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)信算(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)風通常(chang)脾氣(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)古(gu)(gu)(gu)怪(guai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)都(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)知(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己“脾氣(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)古(gu)(gu)(gu)怪(guai)”，反而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，指(zhi)責(ze)別(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)。探究原因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)面(mian)(mian)(mian)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)“欠(qian)缺(que)慈悲(bei)(bei)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)”，另(ling)(ling)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)面(mian)(mian)(mian)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)“癡(chi)業(ye)(ye)(ye)”所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)造(zao)(zao)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。欠(qian)缺(que)慈悲(bei)(bei)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)善(shan)(shan)待(dai)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)；因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)癡(chi)業(ye)(ye)(ye)，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，脾氣(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)古(gu)(gu)(gu)怪(guai)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)知(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)。 （九）離(li)(li)(li)家(jia)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：先(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)太(tai)(tai)(tai)太(tai)(tai)(tai)常(chang)想(xiang)離(li)(li)(li)家(jia)，以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)爭(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)脫(tuo)(tuo)家(jia)庭的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)束(shu)(shu)縛。或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)沒(mei)(mei)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)外(wai)(wai)(wai)遇，沒(mei)(mei)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)理(li)(li)想(xiang)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)家(jia)庭的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)壓(ya)力(li)(li)甚(shen)大(da)(da)，束(shu)(shu)縛甚(shen)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)，已(yi)(yi)沒(mei)(mei)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)足夠的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)勇(yong)氣(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)面(mian)(mian)(mian)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)壓(ya)力(li)(li)和(he)束(shu)(shu)縛，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)常(chang)離(li)(li)(li)家(jia)，流漣在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)外(wai)(wai)(wai)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)到(dao)朋(peng)友(you)(you)家(jia)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)喝(he)悶(men)酒，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)留(liu)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)公司(si)(si)加(jia)班(ban)，借口不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)回(hui)家(jia)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)沒(mei)(mei)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)勇(yong)氣(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)承擔責(ze)任(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)類(lei)(lei)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)。 （十(shi)(shi)）虐待(dai)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)殘(can)酷(ku)狠毒的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)手(shou)段迫害(hai)另(ling)(ling)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)動(dong)(dong)(dong)粗、歐打(da)、鞭打(da)，關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)密室(shi)(shi)等(deng)。這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)虐待(dai)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)被(bei)虐者(zhe)(zhe)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)言(yan)，身(shen)(shen)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)都(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)煎熬，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)痛(tong)苦(ku)將(jiang)深(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)刻記(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)錄于(yu)(yu)意(yi)(yi)(yi)識(shi)和(he)潛意(yi)(yi)(yi)識(shi)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)未(wei)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)總(zong)(zong)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)機會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)報(bao)(bao)(bao)仇(chou)(chou)(chou)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)把對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)折(zhe)(zhe)磨得(de)(de)(de)死(si)(si)(si)去(qu)(qu)活(huo)(huo)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)，求(qiu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)得(de)(de)(de)求(qiu)死(si)(si)(si)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)，把這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)股怨(yuan)(yuan)氣(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)出(chu)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)才(cai)算(suan)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)結(jie)(jie)(jie)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)殘(can)酷(ku)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)態(tai)(tai)，會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)造(zao)(zao)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)極(ji)(ji)(ji)重(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)惡(e)業(ye)(ye)(ye)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)八(ba)(ba)識(shi)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)田極(ji)(ji)(ji)易(yi)(yi)造(zao)(zao)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)地(di)獄(yu)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)子(zi)。這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)，亦(yi)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)稱為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)“地(di)獄(yu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)”。 世(shi)(shi)(shi)間(jian)(jian)怨(yuan)(yuan)偶(ou)很(hen)(hen)(hen)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)，以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)上(shang)(shang)只(zhi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)大(da)(da)致(zhi)列(lie)舉。這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)些(xie)原因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)造(zao)(zao)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)痛(tong)苦(ku)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)奈(nai)，怨(yuan)(yuan)恨(hen)(hen)(hen)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)起(qi)(qi)，又(you)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)力(li)(li)解決(jue)(jue)，最(zui)(zui)后(hou)訴(su)諸法(fa)律，請求(qiu)離(li)(li)(li)婚。同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)時(shi)(shi)(shi)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)結(jie)(jie)(jie)下(xia)(xia)(xia)(xia)惡(e)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)未(wei)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)中(zhong)，事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)重(zhong)演，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)角色(se)互(hu)(hu)(hu)換，眾(zhong)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)便(bian)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)死(si)(si)(si)死(si)(si)(si)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)輪(lun)(lun)回(hui)中(zhong)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)再(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)演出(chu)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)奈(nai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)悲(bei)(bei)劇。這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)“惡(e)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)循還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)”。 無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)奈(nai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)悲(bei)(bei)劇，是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)否(fou)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)終(zhong)(zhong)止的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)天(tian)(tian)(tian)呢(ni)？很(hen)(hen)(hen)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)人(ren)(ren)(ren)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)佛(fo)(fo)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)者(zhe)(zhe)遁入(ru)空門(men)(men)(men)，便(bian)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)擺脫(tuo)(tuo)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)個(ge)(ge)輪(lun)(lun)回(hui)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)夢魘。這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)說法(fa)表面(mian)(mian)(mian)沒(mei)(mei)錯(cuo)(cuo)(cuo)(cuo)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)算(suan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)再(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)高(gao)明(ming)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)者(zhe)(zhe)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)償還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)去(qu)(qu)結(jie)(jie)(jie)下(xia)(xia)(xia)(xia)惡(e)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)宿(su)債。這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)法(fa)界(jie)(jie)“因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)果(guo)(guo)(guo)定(ding)律”，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)法(fa)界(jie)(jie)內無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)免。 人(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)數十(shi)(shi)載(zai)，何(he)(he)必(bi)結(jie)(jie)(jie)惡(e)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)呢(ni)？如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)“最(zui)(zui)積(ji)極(ji)(ji)(ji)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)態(tai)(tai)度(du)(du)，來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)善(shan)(shan)待(dai)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，慈悲(bei)(bei)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，忍辱(ru)(ru)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，即(ji)使(shi)再(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)大(da)(da)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)惡(e)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)，終(zhong)(zhong)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)化解的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)天(tian)(tian)(tian)，進(jin)(jin)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)轉(zhuan)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)結(jie)(jie)(jie)善(shan)(shan)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)。千(qian)萬(wan)勿再(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)服(fu)(fu)侍，種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)下(xia)(xia)(xia)(xia)惡(e)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)知(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)，將(jiang)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)只(zhi)好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)受惡(e)果(guo)(guo)(guo)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)。或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)話有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)危言(yan)聳聽，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)法(fa)界(jie)(jie)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)果(guo)(guo)(guo)定(ding)律，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)你我(wo)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)隨意(yi)(yi)(yi)否(fou)定(ding)。 三(san)、鳥(niao)(niao)巢(chao)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing) 鳥(niao)(niao)巢(chao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)意(yi)(yi)(yi)思為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)“簡(jian)單(dan)但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)穩(wen)定(ding)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)，有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)鳥(niao)(niao)巢(chao)。兩(liang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)只(zhi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)暫時(shi)(shi)(shi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)淡薄(bo)，隨時(shi)(shi)(shi)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)分(fen)(fen)(fen)離(li)(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)表示兩(liang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)雖(sui)(sui)然(ran)(ran)(ran)(ran)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)終(zhong)(zhong)究不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)踏實，緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)深(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)。 （一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)）同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)鴛鴦型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)都(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)沒(mei)(mei)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)，又(you)沒(mei)(mei)社(she)(she)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)地(di)位(wei)(wei)，受社(she)(she)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)忽略(lve)，生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)存于(yu)(yu)陰暗的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)角，同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)病(bing)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)憐，而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)且(qie)朝不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)夕保(bao)(bao)。例(li)如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)逃難的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)偷(tou)渡客，可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)都(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)知(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)道(dao)(dao)(dao)明(ming)日(ri)(ri)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)何(he)(he)。自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)古(gu)(gu)(gu)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)，戰(zhan)爭(zheng)(zheng)(zheng)之(zhi)(zhi)后(hou)，很(hen)(hen)(hen)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)便(bian)淪于(yu)(yu)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)運(yun)。 （二(er)）露水鴛鴦型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)深(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)，有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)露水鴛鴦，今(jin)日(ri)(ri)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)明(ming)日(ri)(ri)又(you)各(ge)(ge)奔東西(xi)。這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)，大(da)(da)部分(fen)(fen)(fen)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)于(yu)(yu)男(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)去(qu)(qu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)，曾對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)女(nv)(nv)(nv)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)救命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)之(zhi)(zhi)恩(en)(en)，故(gu)今(jin)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)女(nv)(nv)(nv)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)男(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)發(fa)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)，并(bing)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)宿(su)之(zhi)(zhi)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)知(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)覺中(zhong)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)救命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)之(zhi)(zhi)恩(en)(en)。以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)往所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)謂“救命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)之(zhi)(zhi)恩(en)(en)”，以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)佛(fo)(fo)教(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)果(guo)(guo)(guo)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)看(kan)，會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)各(ge)(ge)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)式(shi)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)償還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)救命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)之(zhi)(zhi)恩(en)(en)（而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)且(qie)必(bi)定(ding)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)償還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)），但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)感(gan)(gan)(gan)(gan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)式(shi)最(zui)(zui)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)。 （三(san)）人(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)客型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)些(xie)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)結(jie)(jie)(jie)婚沒(mei)(mei)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)久(jiu)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)者(zhe)(zhe)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)罹(li)患絕癥，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)者(zhe)(zhe)突然(ran)(ran)(ran)(ran)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)病(bing)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)者(zhe)(zhe)意(yi)(yi)(yi)外(wai)(wai)(wai)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)故(gu)，即(ji)告(gao)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)終(zhong)(zhong)。家(jia)屬(shu)當(dang)(dang)然(ran)(ran)(ran)(ran)悲(bei)(bei)痛(tong)，更有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)甚(shen)者(zhe)(zhe)，喜事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)當(dang)(dang)天(tian)(tian)(tian)變(bian)喪事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)（如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)車禍(huo)意(yi)(yi)(yi)外(wai)(wai)(wai)）。或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)他(ta)(ta)們(men)彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)些(xie)宿(su)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)份(fen)又(you)短(duan)，來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)人(ren)(ren)(ren)間(jian)(jian)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)遭，有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)人(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)客。 （四）非(fei)正室(shi)(shi)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：非(fei)正室(shi)(shi)即(ji)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)正式(shi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)婚姻(yin)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)現(xian)代社(she)(she)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)稱為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)“外(wai)(wai)(wai)遇”。這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)現(xian)今(jin)社(she)(she)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)并(bing)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)保(bao)(bao)障，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)遲(chi)早也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)結(jie)(jie)(jie)束(shu)(shu)。為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)什么除(chu)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)正室(shi)(shi)，還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)呢(ni)？或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)貪(tan)欲(yu)；或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)去(qu)(qu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)他(ta)(ta)們(men)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)輪(lun)(lun)回(hui)之(zhi)(zhi)后(hou)，今(jin)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)再(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)遇，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)宿(su)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)，只(zhi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)現(xian)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)太(tai)(tai)(tai)太(tai)(tai)(tai)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)法(fa)忍受，甚(shen)至(zhi)大(da)(da)動(dong)(dong)(dong)干弋。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)世(shi)(shi)(shi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)輪(lun)(lun)回(hui)，我(wo)們(men)個(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)各(ge)(ge)道(dao)(dao)(dao)都(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)結(jie)(jie)(jie)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)太(tai)(tai)(tai)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)次緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)，人(ren)(ren)(ren)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)與太(tai)(tai)(tai)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)人(ren)(ren)(ren)牽扯，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)才(cai)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)么多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)糾(jiu)紛。 （五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)）老(lao)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)少(shao)(shao)(shao)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)老(lao)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)少(shao)(shao)(shao)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：年(nian)長(chang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)剩無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)，于(yu)(yu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)財(cai)(cai)產(chan)便(bian)遺(yi)(yi)留(liu)給年(nian)輕的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)并(bing)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)深(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)年(nian)輕的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)只(zhi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)覬(ji)覦另(ling)(ling)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)財(cai)(cai)產(chan)，大(da)(da)部份(fen)還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)“功利(li)取向”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)考慮。因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)“利(li)益”考量，而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)非(fei)感(gan)(gan)(gan)(gan)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)素，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)份(fen)并(bing)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)深(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)。 （六）異(yi)國(guo)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)懷型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：雖(sui)(sui)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)常(chang)年(nian)分(fen)(fen)(fen)居(ju)(ju)兩(liang)地(di)，相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)聚(ju)(ju)時(shi)(shi)(shi)間(jian)(jian)少(shao)(shao)(shao)之(zhi)(zhi)又(you)少(shao)(shao)(shao)。譬如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)先(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)業(ye)(ye)(ye)被(bei)公司(si)(si)調(diao)派海(hai)外(wai)(wai)(wai)分(fen)(fen)(fen)公司(si)(si)，太(tai)(tai)(tai)太(tai)(tai)(tai)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)又(you)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)業(ye)(ye)(ye)走不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)開，兩(liang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)聚(ju)(ju)少(shao)(shao)(shao)離(li)(li)(li)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)。因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)分(fen)(fen)(fen)居(ju)(ju)兩(liang)地(di)，彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)雖(sui)(sui)然(ran)(ran)(ran)(ran)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)仍(reng)屬(shu)于(yu)(yu)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)份(fen)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)深(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)（因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)仍(reng)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)力(li)(li)量使(shi)其(qi)分(fen)(fen)(fen)居(ju)(ju)兩(liang)地(di)）。 （七）借腹(fu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)子(zi)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)其(qi)實沒(mei)(mei)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)感(gan)(gan)(gan)(gan)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)，只(zhi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)留(liu)下(xia)(xia)(xia)(xia)與母親或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)父(fu)親緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)份(fen)較(jiao)深(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)孩(hai)子(zi)。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)古(gu)(gu)(gu)代為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)延續(xu)(xu)香火，有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)時(shi)(shi)(shi)采用借腹(fu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)子(zi)，現(xian)代社(she)(she)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)則有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)精子(zi)銀行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)。有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)小孩(hai)之(zhi)(zhi)后(hou)，彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)便(bian)告(gao)結(jie)(jie)(jie)束(shu)(shu)。基(ji)(ji)(ji)于(yu)(yu)“某(mou)(mou)(mou)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)目(mu)地(di)”而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)男(nan)女(nv)(nv)(nv)，因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)將(jiang)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)“某(mou)(mou)(mou)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)目(mu)地(di)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)果(guo)(guo)(guo)報(bao)(bao)(bao)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)他(ta)(ta)們(men)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)“共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)業(ye)(ye)(ye)”。 （八(ba)(ba)）萍水相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)逢型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)某(mou)(mou)(mou)些(xie)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)聚(ju)(ju)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起(qi)(qi)，如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起(qi)(qi)旅游，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)出(chu)任(ren)務，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)聚(ju)(ju)時(shi)(shi)(shi)，彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)感(gan)(gan)(gan)(gan)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)，可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)等(deng)旅游或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)任(ren)務結(jie)(jie)(jie)束(shu)(shu)，因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)結(jie)(jie)(jie)束(shu)(shu)之(zhi)(zhi)后(hou)，便(bian)分(fen)(fen)(fen)開各(ge)(ge)奔東西(xi)。對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)言(yan)，只(zhi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)段美好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)記(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)憶，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)終(zhong)(zhong)究是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)萍水相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)逢而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)已(yi)(yi)，無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)法(fa)延續(xu)(xu)。萍水相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)逢，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)造(zao)(zao)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)未(wei)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)更深(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)，因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)都(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)印(yin)(yin)像，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)意(yi)(yi)(yi)識(shi)和(he)潛意(yi)(yi)(yi)識(shi)里會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)記(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)下(xia)(xia)(xia)(xia)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)。例(li)如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)釋(shi)迦牟尼佛(fo)(fo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)本(ben)(ben)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)故(gu)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)中(zhong)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)去(qu)(qu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)童(tong)子(zi)時(shi)(shi)(shi)，為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)供養(yang)燃燈佛(fo)(fo)，與賣(mai)花(hua)(hua)女(nv)(nv)(nv)子(zi)結(jie)(jie)(jie)下(xia)(xia)(xia)(xia)“五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)莖花(hua)(hua)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)。賣(mai)花(hua)(hua)女(nv)(nv)(nv)子(zi)希望(wang)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)童(tong)子(zi)未(wei)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)正果(guo)(guo)(guo)前，能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)童(tong)子(zi)之(zhi)(zhi)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)，修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)正果(guo)(guo)(guo)后(hou)，能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)被(bei)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)童(tong)子(zi)所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)渡化，最(zui)(zui)后(hou)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)童(tong)子(zi)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)答應(ying)賣(mai)花(hua)(hua)女(nv)(nv)(nv)子(zi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)求(qiu)。 有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)鳥(niao)(niao)巢(chao)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)類(lei)(lei)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)少(shao)(shao)(shao)數，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)盡(jin)人(ren)(ren)(ren)散的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)感(gan)(gan)(gan)(gan)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)現(xian)代社(she)(she)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)真(zhen)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)平(ping)常(chang)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)看(kan)待(dai)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)足為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)怪(guai)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)。對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)于(yu)(yu)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)佛(fo)(fo)者(zhe)(zhe)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)言(yan)，看(kan)待(dai)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)婚姻(yin)，至(zhi)少(shao)(shao)(shao)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)知(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)道(dao)(dao)(dao)兩(liang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)面(mian)(mian)(mian)：（1）學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)佛(fo)(fo)者(zhe)(zhe)如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)發(fa)愿行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)菩(pu)(pu)薩(sa)道(dao)(dao)(dao)，雖(sui)(sui)然(ran)(ran)(ran)(ran)彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)淺，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)仍(reng)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)珍(zhen)惜(xi)(xi)把握(wo)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)善(shan)(shan)待(dai)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，結(jie)(jie)(jie)好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)善(shan)(shan)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)。（2）學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)佛(fo)(fo)者(zhe)(zhe)仍(reng)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)知(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)道(dao)(dao)(dao)世(shi)(shi)(shi)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)本(ben)(ben)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)常(chang)，如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)夢如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)幻。 四、平(ping)順(shun)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing) （一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)）事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)業(ye)(ye)(ye)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)功型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)業(ye)(ye)(ye)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)功，家(jia)庭基(ji)(ji)(ji)礎(chu)(chu)(chu)穩(wen)固，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)面(mian)(mian)(mian)包的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)基(ji)(ji)(ji)礎(chu)(chu)(chu)，還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)算(suan)穩(wen)固，各(ge)(ge)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)面(mian)(mian)(mian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)需求(qiu)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)虞匱(kui)乏(fa)，生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)(huo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)享(xiang)受也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)較(jiao)常(chang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)高(gao)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)歸功于(yu)(yu)其(qi)“人(ren)(ren)(ren)間(jian)(jian)福報(bao)(bao)(bao)”較(jiao)足。事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)業(ye)(ye)(ye)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)功，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)去(qu)(qu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)褔報(bao)(bao)(bao)。如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)業(ye)(ye)(ye)屬(shu)于(yu)(yu)兩(liang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)創，彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)更加(jia)珍(zhen)惜(xi)(xi)。 （二(er)）共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)理(li)(li)想(xiang)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)求(qiu)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)懷有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)理(li)(li)想(xiang)，自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)然(ran)(ran)(ran)(ran)共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)組(zu)家(jia)庭，生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)(huo)平(ping)順(shun)。共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)追求(qiu)理(li)(li)想(xiang)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)第八(ba)(ba)識(shi)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)容易(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)下(xia)(xia)(xia)(xia)共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)記(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)憶的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)子(zi)，如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)經過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)都(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)理(li)(li)想(xiang)，轉(zhuan)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)佛(fo)(fo)，說不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)定(ding)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愿呢(ni)！有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)理(li)(li)想(xiang)，可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)、兄弟(di)、好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)朋(peng)友(you)(you)等(deng)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)。 （三(san)）門(men)(men)(men)當(dang)(dang)戶對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)論(lun)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)業(ye)(ye)(ye)、個(ge)(ge)性(xing)(xing)(xing)、家(jia)世(shi)(shi)(shi)、學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)歷(li)、地(di)位(wei)(wei)都(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)得(de)(de)(de)雙(shuang)(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)家(jia)族(zu)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)意(yi)(yi)(yi)，門(men)(men)(men)當(dang)(dang)戶對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)感(gan)(gan)(gan)(gan)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)當(dang)(dang)平(ping)順(shun)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)差距太(tai)(tai)(tai)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)沖突。如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)門(men)(men)(men)當(dang)(dang)戶對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)，多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)維持(chi)某(mou)(mou)(mou)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)程度(du)(du)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)穩(wen)定(ding)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)感(gan)(gan)(gan)(gan)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)已(yi)(yi)加(jia)入(ru)家(jia)族(zu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)份(fen)。 （四）共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)長(chang)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)背景環(huan)境很(hen)(hen)(hen)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)，如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)鄰居(ju)(ju)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)青梅竹馬，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)求(qiu)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)工作(zuo)環(huan)境，彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)很(hen)(hen)(hen)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)經驗可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)分(fen)(fen)(fen)享(xiang)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起(qi)(qi)渡過(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)低(di)潮(chao)挫折(zhe)(zhe)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起(qi)(qi)共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)長(chang)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)穩(wen)固了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)感(gan)(gan)(gan)(gan)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)。由(you)(you)于(yu)(yu)共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)長(chang)，可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起(qi)(qi)面(mian)(mian)(mian)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)難關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)考驗，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)力(li)(li)量的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)延續(xu)(xu)，今(jin)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)系(xi)(xi)(xi)(xi)，來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)許(xu)(xu)(xu)很(hen)(hen)(hen)容易(yi)(yi)再(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)聚(ju)(ju)。 （五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)）媒(mei)妁之(zhi)(zhi)言(yan)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：經由(you)(you)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)親方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)式(shi)，彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)認(ren)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)，進(jin)(jin)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)組(zu)家(jia)庭。彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)需要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)安定(ding)，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)感(gan)(gan)(gan)(gan)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)當(dang)(dang)平(ping)順(shun)。某(mou)(mou)(mou)些(xie)經由(you)(you)宗教(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)式(shi)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)產(chan)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)基(ji)(ji)(ji)督教(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)，天(tian)(tian)(tian)主教(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao))，基(ji)(ji)(ji)本(ben)(ben)上(shang)(shang)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)算(suan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)。 五(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)、共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing) （一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)）共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)愿力(li)(li)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)人(ren)(ren)(ren)本(ben)(ben)身(shen)(shen)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)愿力(li)(li)，彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)約(yue)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)世(shi)(shi)(shi)間(jian)(jian)，可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)宿(su)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)約(yue)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)。雖(sui)(sui)然(ran)(ran)(ran)(ran)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)世(shi)(shi)(shi)間(jian)(jian)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)都(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)(dou)精進(jin)(jin)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)(huo)上(shang)(shang)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)與宗教(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)（無(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)論(lun)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)佛(fo)(fo)教(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)、基(ji)(ji)(ji)督教(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)、天(tian)(tian)(tian)主教(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)、道(dao)(dao)(dao)教(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)等(deng)任(ren)何(he)(he)宗教(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)(jiao)），共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)利(li)益世(shi)(shi)(shi)間(jian)(jian)。 （二(er)）共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)習(xi)(xi)(xi)性(xing)(xing)(xing)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)習(xi)(xi)(xi)性(xing)(xing)(xing)、方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)式(shi)相(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)類(lei)(lei)似(si)(si)，或(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)(huo)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)世(shi)(shi)(shi)世(shi)(shi)(shi)常(chang)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起(qi)(qi)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，彼(bi)(bi)(bi)(bi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)多(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)(duo)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)熟(shu)悉，所(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)今(jin)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)今(jin)世(shi)(shi)(shi)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起(qi)(qi)共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)，共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)習(xi)(xi)(xi)。一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)還(huan)(huan)(huan)(huan)未(wei)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)面(mian)(mian)(mian)尚(shang)未(wei)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)脫(tuo)(tuo)死(si)(si)(si)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)面(mian)(mian)(mian)又(you)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)卻(que)人(ren)(ren)(ren)間(jian)(jian)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)緣(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)(yuan)，以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)式(shi)最(zui)(zui)好(hao)(hao)(hao)(hao)。 （三(san)）共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)業(ye)(ye)(ye)力(li)(li)型(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)：夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)雖(sui)(sui)然(ran)(ran)(ran)(ran)共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)世(shi)(shi)(shi)間(jian)(jian)必(bi)須承擔共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)果(guo)(guo)(guo)報(bao)(bao)(bao)。因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)雖(sui)(sui)然(ran)(ran)(ran)(ran)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)修(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)(xiu)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)智(zhi)慧不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)足時(shi)(shi)(shi)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)犯下(xia)(xia)(xia)(xia)某(mou)(mou)(mou)個(ge)(ge)錯(cuo)(cuo)(cuo)(cuo)誤，因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)此(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)未(wei)來(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)(lai)世(shi)(shi)(shi)必(bi)須共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)承擔曾犯下(xia)(xia)(xia)(xia)錯(cuo)(cuo)(cuo)(cuo)誤的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)果(guo)(guo)(guo)報(bao)(bao)(bao)。面(mian)(mian)(mian)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)果(guo)(guo)(guo)報(bao)(bao)(bao)時(shi)(shi)(shi)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)須驚慌，必(bi)須兩(liang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)面(mian)(mian)(mian)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)，共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)解決(jue)(jue)，即(ji)使(shi)共(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)賠上(shang)(shang)性(xing)(xing)(xing)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)必(bi)須坦然(ran)(ran)(ran)(ran)接受，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)佛(fo)(fo)，佛(fo)(fo)菩(pu)(pu)薩(sa)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)必(bi)定(ding)保(bao)(bao)平(ping)安。如(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)樣(yang)做，佛(fo)(fo)菩(pu)(pu)薩(sa)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)違背了(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)(le)法(fa)界(jie)(jie)因(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)(yin)果(guo)(guo)(guo)原則。 以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)上(shang)(shang)討(tao)(tao)論(lun)，僅提供參考。世(shi)(shi)(shi)間(jian)(jian)夫(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)(fu)妻(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)千(qian)百樣(yang)，樣(yang)樣(yang)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)樣(yang)。居(ju)(ju)士學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)佛(fo)(fo)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)見(jian)得(de)(de)(de)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)“幸(xing)福美滿”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)(huo)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)(dan)至(zhi)少(shao)(shao)(shao)可(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)“安貧(pin)樂道(dao)(dao)(dao)”，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)再(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)憂煩。 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請相信確有前世和來世的。
因為因果報應，因為我們都在不斷輪回！
佛教有一句很有名的諺語“預知前世因，今生受著是。預知后世果，今生作者是。”
意思就是說，想知道你前世是怎樣的人嗎？那么就要看以這一生所享受的福報了！若你前生是個樂善好施、為人和善與人都結善緣的話，那么你這一生一定享有很多的榮華富貴。每個人見到你都尊敬你。若你前生是個自私自立不懂得幫助別人的人。那么你這一生肯定事事不順心、而且沒有人愿意幫助你、關心你。想預知你的來世嗎？那么就要看你這一生是怎么做的了！
死亡并不意味著結束，
而是新的開始！因為我們在不斷的輪回！
打個比方！我們的神識就像一個汽車駕駛員。而我們的身體則像一部汽車！汽車使用到一段時間后，就會老化、報廢。那么駕駛員要換一個新的汽車了！
在生生世世的(de)(de)輪回中(zhong)我(wo)們不斷變換的(de)(de)是我(wo)們的(de)(de)身體(ti)！而我(wo)們的(de)(de)神識是不變的(de)(de)...
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