我經常夢見暗戀的人,怎么辦?
在(zai)初(chu)中(zhong)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi),我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)就喜歡(huan)(huan)上(shang)(shang)了(le)(le)一(yi)個(ge)(ge)人,一(yi)直到大學,我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)還是(shi)(shi)(shi)在(zai)喜歡(huan)(huan)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)。但(dan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)從來不(bu)(bu)(bu)敢也沒(mei)有(you)(you)(you)勇(yong)氣(qi)向(xiang)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)表白,他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)高大,帥氣(qi),而我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)長象(xiang)雖然(ran)還可(ke)以,但(dan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)卻(que)比他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)矮了(le)(le)二十七八公分,我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)身材也很一(yi)般(ban),我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)怕(pa)被(bei)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)拒絕以后(hou)連(lian)普通(tong)朋友都(dou)做(zuo)不(bu)(bu)(bu)成(cheng)了(le)(le),而實際上(shang)(shang)我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)們的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)交(jiao)往還沒(mei)有(you)(you)(you)普通(tong)朋友的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)交(jiao)往多呢,我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)越是(shi)(shi)(shi)喜歡(huan)(huan)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta),越是(shi)(shi)(shi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)好意思和他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)接(jie)近。每次(ci)遇(yu)見(jian)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi),我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)(xin)都(dou)砰砰地(di)跳。這(zhe)(zhe)么多年(nian)來我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)總是(shi)(shi)(shi)陷在(zai)暗戀(lian)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)痛(tong)苦之中(zhong),他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)好象(xiang)知道(dao)(dao)我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)喜歡(huan)(huan)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta),而我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)卻(que)不(bu)(bu)(bu)知道(dao)(dao)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)是(shi)(shi)(shi)否喜歡(huan)(huan)過我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo),為(wei)了(le)(le)不(bu)(bu)(bu)再想(xiang)(xiang)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta),大學時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)接(jie)受了(le)(le)一(yi)個(ge)(ge)人的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)追求,慢慢地(di)我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)也喜歡(huan)(huan)上(shang)(shang)這(zhe)(zhe)個(ge)(ge)人了(le)(le),并(bing)且(qie)現在(zai)我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)們已經結(jie)(jie)婚(hun)了(le)(le),我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)很愛我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)老(lao)(lao)公,曾(ceng)經有(you)(you)(you)很長一(yi)段時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)間我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)真的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)沒(mei)有(you)(you)(you)再想(xiang)(xiang)起(qi)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta),遇(yu)見(jian)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)也能(neng)以平常心(xin)(xin)來對(dui)待。可(ke)是(shi)(shi)(shi)最近在(zai)校(xiao)友錄(lu)上(shang)(shang)知道(dao)(dao)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)也結(jie)(jie)婚(hun)了(le)(le),我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)雖然(ran)真心(xin)(xin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)希望他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)幸福(fu),但(dan)又(you)(you)開始(shi)忍不(bu)(bu)(bu)住(zhu)想(xiang)(xiang)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta),而且(qie)有(you)(you)(you)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)會在(zai)夢里夢見(jian)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta),但(dan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)和我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)老(lao)(lao)公從相處(chu)到結(jie)(jie)婚(hun)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)這(zhe)(zhe)4年(nian)多,我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)卻(que)很少夢見(jian)我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)老(lao)(lao)公,現在(zai)每當(dang)有(you)(you)(you)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)消息時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi),我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)(xin)還是(shi)(shi)(shi)會砰砰地(di)跳,這(zhe)(zhe)時(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)知道(dao)(dao)了(le)(le)我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)還是(shi)(shi)(shi)在(zai)想(xiang)(xiang)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)。我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)現在(zai)最后(hou)悔(hui)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)是(shi)(shi)(shi)當(dang)初(chu)沒(mei)有(you)(you)(you)向(xiang)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)表白過,不(bu)(bu)(bu)管結(jie)(jie)果怎么樣(yang),畢竟努力過了(le)(le),可(ke)是(shi)(shi)(shi)現在(zai)我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)連(lian)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)喜歡(huan)(huan)沒(mei)喜歡(huan)(huan)過我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)都(dou)不(bu)(bu)(bu)知道(dao)(dao),現在(zai)我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)很想(xiang)(xiang)和他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)聯系,想(xiang)(xiang)和他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)做(zuo)個(ge)(ge)好朋友,也想(xiang)(xiang)讓(rang)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)知道(dao)(dao)當(dang)初(chu)沒(mei)有(you)(you)(you)選擇(ze)我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)是(shi)(shi)(shi)多么的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)可(ke)惜,但(dan)我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)又(you)(you)不(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)這(zhe)(zhe)樣(yang)做(zuo),因(yin)為(wei)這(zhe)(zhe)樣(yang)很對(dui)不(bu)(bu)(bu)起(qi)我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)老(lao)(lao)公,我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)想(xiang)(xiang)完全忘記他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta),全心(xin)(xin)全意地(di)愛我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)老(lao)(lao)公,可(ke)是(shi)(shi)(shi)現在(zai)又(you)(you)做(zuo)不(bu)(bu)(bu)到,請(qing)您幫(bang)幫(bang)我(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)吧!...
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