為什么社會上算命的人說得那么準?
在(zai)日常(chang)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)中(zhong)(zhong),我(wo)(wo)們(men)(men)(men)(men)常(chang)常(chang)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)遇到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)一(yi)(yi)(yi)些(xie)(xie)看(kan)手(shou)相、面相的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng),即使(shi)是(shi)(shi)在(zai)現代化的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)都(dou)(dou)(dou)市中(zhong)(zhong),我(wo)(wo)們(men)(men)(men)(men)也(ye)經(jing)常(chang)可(ke)以(yi)在(zai)立(li)交(jiao)橋下(xia)、公(gong)園門口、人(ren)(ren)行(xing)道邊,看(kan)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)卦攤(tan),而(er)(er)且為這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)些(xie)(xie)算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)捧場的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)也(ye)不在(zai)少數。 雖然有(you)(you)(you)時候,人(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)(men)明(ming)知(zhi)其(qi)(qi)迷(mi)信,有(you)(you)(you)“蒙人(ren)(ren)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)嫌(xian)疑,但還(huan)是(shi)(shi)有(you)(you)(you)不少人(ren)(ren)樂(le)意(yi)(yi)通過這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種方(fang)式來預測自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)運程。而(er)(er)且很(hen)(hen)多(duo)受過算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)“指(zhi)點(dian)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren),都(dou)(dou)(dou)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)被(bei)算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)未(wei)卜(bu)先(xian)(xian)(xian)知(zhi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)預見力所(suo)(suo)征服(fu),覺(jue)得算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)說的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)非常(chang)準。這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)為什么(me)(me)呢(ni)(ni)?難道算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)真(zhen)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能夠(gou)洞(dong)(dong)察過去,預知(zhi)未(wei)來嗎? 心(xin)理(li)學家對算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)現象(xiang)進行(xing)了(le)深(shen)入(ru)研究,他(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)(men)(men)發現,算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)之(zhi)(zhi)所(suo)(suo)以(yi)能夠(gou)說的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)如(ru)(ru)(ru)此(ci)之(zhi)(zhi)準,其(qi)(qi)實只(zhi)是(shi)(shi)利(li)(li)用(yong)人(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)(men)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)種“自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)我(wo)(wo)求(qiu)證”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)理(li),把(ba)人(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)(men)引(yin)入(ru)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)“陷(xian)阱(jing)”之(zhi)(zhi)中(zhong)(zhong)而(er)(er)已。 算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)往(wang)(wang)(wang)往(wang)(wang)(wang)善于觀察人(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)(men)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)理(li),并懂得利(li)(li)用(yong)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)些(xie)(xie)心(xin)理(li)達到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)目的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)向(xiang)被(bei)算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)提(ti)出的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)問題(ti)往(wang)(wang)(wang)往(wang)(wang)(wang)都(dou)(dou)(dou)是(shi)(shi)語(yu)意(yi)(yi)不明(ming)確的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de),因(yin)為語(yu)意(yi)(yi)不明(ming)確的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)問話(hua)(hua),往(wang)(wang)(wang)往(wang)(wang)(wang)容(rong)(rong)易(yi)讓(rang)人(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)(men)向(xiang)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)認(ren)定的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)方(fang)向(xiang)去推(tui)測和(he)(he)想(xiang)象(xiang)。 例(li)如(ru)(ru)(ru)有(you)(you)(you)時算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)問:“你(ni)(ni)家門口是(shi)(shi)否(fou)有(you)(you)(you)棵(ke)大樹?”如(ru)(ru)(ru)果有(you)(you)(you),你(ni)(ni)就(jiu)(jiu)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)認(ren)為他(ta)(ta)果然能掐會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)算(suan)(suan)(suan);如(ru)(ru)(ru)果沒(mei)有(you)(you)(you),他(ta)(ta)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)一(yi)(yi)(yi)本正(zheng)經(jing)地(di)說:“哦,沒(mei)有(you)(you)(you)最好。”好像(xiang)他(ta)(ta)原本便(bian)希望沒(mei)有(you)(you)(you)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)棵(ke)樹。有(you)(you)(you)時算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)說:“你(ni)(ni)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)個人(ren)(ren)和(he)(he)水(shui)(shui)(shui)(shui)比較有(you)(you)(you)緣的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。”這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)樣(yang)(yang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)話(hua)(hua)往(wang)(wang)(wang)往(wang)(wang)(wang)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)引(yin)起人(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)(men)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)很(hen)(hen)多(duo)聯(lian)(lian)想(xiang)。如(ru)(ru)(ru)果你(ni)(ni)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名字中(zhong)(zhong)有(you)(you)(you)個“水(shui)(shui)(shui)(shui)”字或者帶有(you)(you)(you)三點(dian)水(shui)(shui)(shui)(shui)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)偏旁,你(ni)(ni)便(bian)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)想(xiang):他(ta)(ta)怎(zen)么(me)(me)知(zhi)道我(wo)(wo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名字和(he)(he)水(shui)(shui)(shui)(shui)有(you)(you)(you)聯(lian)(lian)系呢(ni)(ni)?如(ru)(ru)(ru)果你(ni)(ni)是(shi)(shi)在(zai)水(shui)(shui)(shui)(shui)利(li)(li)部(bu)門工(gong)作,你(ni)(ni)也(ye)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)很(hen)(hen)奇怪:他(ta)(ta)怎(zen)么(me)(me)知(zhi)道我(wo)(wo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)工(gong)作和(he)(he)水(shui)(shui)(shui)(shui)有(you)(you)(you)關(guan)(guan)呢(ni)(ni)?如(ru)(ru)(ru)果你(ni)(ni)家附(fu)近有(you)(you)(you)條河流或池塘,你(ni)(ni)同樣(yang)(yang)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)吃驚:他(ta)(ta)怎(zen)么(me)(me)知(zhi)道我(wo)(wo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)住處旁邊有(you)(you)(you)水(shui)(shui)(shui)(shui)啊?如(ru)(ru)(ru)此(ci)等(deng)等(deng)。不用(yong)算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)說出些(xie)(xie)什么(me)(me),你(ni)(ni)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)已經(jing)聯(lian)(lian)想(xiang)了(le)很(hen)(hen)多(duo)。 人(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)(men)都(dou)(dou)(dou)有(you)(you)(you)一(yi)(yi)(yi)種“自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)我(wo)(wo)求(qiu)證”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)理(li),當(dang)其(qi)(qi)受到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)某種暗(an)(an)示(shi)后(hou),大腦中(zhong)(zhong)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)立(li)刻浮(fu)(fu)現出一(yi)(yi)(yi)系列與(yu)(yu)(yu)此(ci)暗(an)(an)示(shi)有(you)(you)(you)關(guan)(guan)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)內容(rong)(rong)。因(yin)此(ci),當(dang)聽(ting)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)說你(ni)(ni)“與(yu)(yu)(yu)水(shui)(shui)(shui)(shui)有(you)(you)(you)緣”時,你(ni)(ni)就(jiu)(jiu)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)不由自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)主(zhu)(zhu)地(di)把(ba)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)一(yi)(yi)(yi)切與(yu)(yu)(yu)水(shui)(shui)(shui)(shui)有(you)(you)(you)關(guan)(guan)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)經(jing)歷或事物都(dou)(dou)(dou)找出來,來證明(ming)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)確實與(yu)(yu)(yu)水(shui)(shui)(shui)(shui)有(you)(you)(you)關(guan)(guan),甚至會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)把(ba)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)某一(yi)(yi)(yi)次游泳(yong)時腳(jiao)抽筋的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)事都(dou)(dou)(dou)聯(lian)(lian)系到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)里(li)。因(yin)此(ci),你(ni)(ni)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)覺(jue)得:真(zhen)是(shi)(shi)神了(le)!他(ta)(ta)怎(zen)么(me)(me)知(zhi)道我(wo)(wo)和(he)(he)水(shui)(shui)(shui)(shui)有(you)(you)(you)緣呢(ni)(ni)? 算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)正(zheng)是(shi)(shi)利(li)(li)用(yong)人(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)(men)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種心(xin)理(li),向(xiang)人(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)(men)提(ti)供一(yi)(yi)(yi)些(xie)(xie)模(mo)糊的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)信息(xi),讓(rang)對方(fang)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)去求(qiu)證,以(yi)使(shi)信息(xi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)模(mo)糊性(xing)具體化,讓(rang)被(bei)算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)覺(jue)得他(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)(men)(men)真(zhen)是(shi)(shi)神機妙算(suan)(suan)(suan),可(ke)以(yi)洞(dong)(dong)察天機。 “算(suan)(suan)(suan)”術高超的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)往(wang)(wang)(wang)往(wang)(wang)(wang)都(dou)(dou)(dou)是(shi)(shi)善于設置“心(xin)理(li)陷(xian)阱(jing)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)高手(shou)。他(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)(men)(men)能夠(gou)抓住被(bei)算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)人(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)理(li),在(zai)詢問以(yi)及對話(hua)(hua)中(zhong)(zhong)對其(qi)(qi)進行(xing)不動聲色的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)暗(an)(an)示(shi),使(shi)其(qi)(qi)主(zhu)(zhu)動鉆進自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)設計(ji)好的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)“陷(xian)阱(jing)”之(zhi)(zhi)中(zhong)(zhong)。例(li)如(ru)(ru)(ru),算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)總會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)告訴(su)被(bei)算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)人(ren)(ren)要心(xin)誠,“心(xin)誠則靈”,這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)其(qi)(qi)實就(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)對他(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)(men)(men)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)個肯(ken)定性(xing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)暗(an)(an)示(shi),讓(rang)其(qi)(qi)對自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)持贊同的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)態度。在(zai)產(chan)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)信任(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)前提(ti)下(xia),你(ni)(ni)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)思(si)路當(dang)然就(jiu)(jiu)很(hen)(hen)容(rong)(rong)易(yi)順著算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)某種提(ti)示(shi)越走越遠了(le)。并在(zai)算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)提(ti)出的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)些(xie)(xie)模(mo)糊性(xing)問題(ti)下(xia),努力進行(xing)回憶與(yu)(yu)(yu)聯(lian)(lian)想(xiang),主(zhu)(zhu)動證明(ming)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)些(xie)(xie)話(hua)(hua)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)準確性(xing)。而(er)(er)算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)恰恰是(shi)(shi)巧妙地(di)利(li)(li)用(yong)了(le)人(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)(men)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)“自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)我(wo)(wo)求(qiu)證”心(xin)理(li),達到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)了(le)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)騙財的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)目的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。 行(xing)為揭秘: 在(zai)日常(chang)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo),幾乎人(ren)(ren)人(ren)(ren)都(dou)(dou)(dou)抱有(you)(you)(you)一(yi)(yi)(yi)種微妙的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)求(qiu)證心(xin)理(li)。因(yin)此(ci)當(dang)算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)用(yong)籠統的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)、概括(kuo)性(xing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)語(yu)言進行(xing)描述時,人(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)(men)就(jiu)(jiu)很(hen)(hen)容(rong)(rong)易(yi)浮(fu)(fu)想(xiang)聯(lian)(lian)翩,對號(hao)入(ru)座(zuo),從而(er)(er)產(chan)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)一(yi)(yi)(yi)種錯覺(jue),以(yi)為算(suan)(suan)(suan)命(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)先(xian)(xian)(xian)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)可(ke)以(yi)未(wei)卜(bu)先(xian)(xian)(xian)知(zhi)。...
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